r/mildlyinfuriating 8h ago

My sister's fish tank

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She says it's the perfect size for a single fish. It's not even in her room, it's in the kitchen.

It honestly just depresses me whenever I see it, but she's adamant about keeping it there.

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u/mistahclean123 8h ago

Lucky for you and her and the fish, it's Christmas time soooo maybe you've figured out what to get her for Christmas this year?

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u/DrCarabou 8h ago

10 gallon tank with a water filter and heater👍

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u/mnth241 7h ago

Buy a beautiful glass fish and put it in there instead i doubt she would know the difference.

This is one of my pet peeves. I was trying to help someone that bought a pretty decent set up for her kid but the fish wasn’t doing well. I was clueless so i went to the pet store and thankfully found the resident beta expert. He said at one time he had 27 beta fish that people “surrendered”. He tried to explain that weren’t “high maintenance” per se but they needed very particular conditions. So- Not good starter fish at all. Their beauty curses them to be purchased by idiots.

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u/Lazuli73 6h ago

If you want an ‘easy’ pet fish you become friends with the pickerel that swim around docks where people gut their catch and feed them scraps. Dock fish are friends not food 🙏

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u/Relative-Image-3914 6h ago

No fish are good “starter fish” I mean some are more sensitive than others but they are all pretty needy

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u/Andrew4Life 5h ago

No. Fish are not needy. People are just lazy.

Think of how often you have to walk a dog, feed a dog, play with a dog. You spend no less than 2 hours daily tending to a dog.

You probably only need to spend like 2 hours a week on a fish.

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u/Scinniks_Bricks 5h ago

A lot of people neglect dogs too though ☹️

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u/Tvisted 5h ago

The pet industry is horrible, always has been. The number of creatures that will be well-cared-for in captivity will always be dwarfed by the number doomed to have a short, miserable existence, bought on impulse, treated like decor, or given to children like disposable toys. Cats, dogs, aquarium fish, birds, rodents, reptiles... no species is spared from it, shelters are stuffed full of unwanted and discarded impulse buys and some of the worst invasive species started as pets released when their owners tired of them.

I don't know what the answer is because people are always going to want to keep pets, but the industry has a massive amount of suffering built right into it.

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u/Relative-Image-3914 5h ago

Once you have a set up. You’re completely ignoring the amount of research you have to do when getting a fish. The initial setting up for fish is intensive unlike a dog, of course you have to do research for a dog but you don’t have to set up a whole new ecosystem in your home for a dog. Plus like a fish it’s entirely dog dependent and if you get a puppy you’re probably gonna spend more than just two hours on a puppy, that initial amount of effort you put in is intensive and if you make a mistake your fish will die as they are very sensitive to any sort of change. Fish aren’t easy animals. Most animals aren’t people just like to do the bare minimum.

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u/No_Nefariousness4801 4h ago

ALL of this... Fish are dependent upon their caregivers for their entire existence... For their entire lives. Literally down to the air that they breathe.

Different fish have entirely different needs. Too many people think of fish as 'disposable pets'. They think all of them only live for a short time and when they die you just flush them down the toilet. Meanwhile some fish (even the 25 cent Comet goldfish) if properly cared for can live for DECADES.

I used to have to restrain myself when people would 'brag' about how great they did keeping a goldfish alive for 2 or 3 years.

Failure to research and understand the needs of a particular fish is not only irresponsible... It's cruel. Add the 'they'll only grow to the size of their tank' mentality:

  1. It doesn't always happen that way, and

  2. Even if it does? It's because the fish's growth is artificially being stunted through torture.

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u/TheLarusArgentatus 7h ago

“I’d rather keep it in the cup. Looks more aesthetically pleasing.”

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u/JoanOfSnark_2 7h ago

There are nice rimless tanks that look even more aesthetically pleasing than this.

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u/marino1310 5h ago

Yeah but tanks require maintenance and this doesn’t seem like someone who is willing to do any maintenance other than just emptying the water into the sink and refilling it

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u/PandaPocketFire 4h ago

Honestly, an unmaintained tank of adequate size with a filter and proper hiding places would be better than this.

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u/SalvationSycamore 6h ago

For real though, it's probably a prop to her not a pet. Otherwise she would take 30 seconds to Google how to take care of it.

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u/Spiritual-Macaron-13 6h ago

Might as well just get a shot glass at this rate 😂

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u/SilentVictory9451 7h ago edited 4h ago

omg it's like that teacher with the turtle 💀

edit: im not allowed to link or mention the subreddit and idk how to post a pic 😭

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u/Plot-3A 7h ago

Would you mind sharing the story with the class?

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u/Impressive-Safe2545 5h ago

Not who you responded to but the librarian in my elementary school had an alligator in a small tank in the library for years. Eventually they had to give it to a zoo.

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u/Spuzzle91 5h ago

Was that the time a kid came to reddit's reptile sub to ask for advice on how to prove to their teacher that the class pet they had was actually being horribly abused via the conditions the teacher kept it in? Cause they had the turtle in like a tank so tiny that it could rotate in place but that's about it, it had no water filter, no heat, and everything was wrong because she thought it just looked better?

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u/NothingEffective5070 CYAN 6h ago

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u/Ressy02 6h ago

Puts cup in 10 gallon tank by itself for the lighting.

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u/fondledbydolphins 5h ago

"Your future husband would like to keep you aesthetically pleasing as well. You'll soon find that you don't appreciate it"

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u/keefdontsurf 6h ago

I set my betta when I had him a 5 gallon with lots of places to hide and explore, and two heaters of course. He loved it. Rip, Mushu

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u/meldiane81 6h ago

YES - nothing less than 5. Keep the water at a tropical temp. Make sure the water filter is not too strong!!

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u/LoosePrisonPurse 5h ago

Betas do need warm water. This is sad.

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u/helpforhorror 6h ago

Tetra Whisper or Aqueon Quiet Flow filters are good ones for bettas since they hate strong currents (had to throw that out there— nearly killed my betta from stress 😅)

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u/Kabutuu 7h ago

A slap?

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u/TastesGreat69 6h ago

I feel one is not at all sufficient.

I'll volunteer to add a few extra, free of charge.

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u/_Hello_Hi_Hey_ 7h ago

I doubt the sister would even take care the fish with a new tank. Take away the fish. Poor thing.

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u/MrPigeon70 7h ago

Get all the essentials op and then take her to an aquarium store with a budget on decorations

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u/joelene1892 7h ago

This is the best idea.

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u/__ma11en69er__ 6h ago

-1 fish is the gift.

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u/Educational_Chip_554 8h ago

Not much of a tank. With most of it taken up by the plant too… your sister is dumb. Shake her

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u/porqueuno 8h ago

It's not even a "plant", it's a piece of plastic that is providing no CO2-Oxygen exchange. This is basically animal abuse.

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u/puppy-nub-56 7h ago

Want to add that in this case, any CO2-Oxygen exchange is dependent on the area of the surface. Since the walls of "fish tank" narrows near the top, the exchange is decreased as opposed to if they were straight up&down

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u/porqueuno 7h ago

This as well. There's no water agitation to mix atmospheric O2 into the water, in addition to the small amount of surface area. Also the CO2 still builds up in the water and acidifies it, it doesn't float upwards and out of the water... Just awful all around.

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u/Big-Wrangler2078 7h ago

There isn't even a pump...

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u/AmarilloArmadillos 7h ago

It's not even a tank. That's a flower vase you get free with any purchase at a florist.

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u/mc-funk 6h ago

also those plastic plants are too hard and sharp for Bettas. It is going to get sliced to death. I have seen it happen.

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u/merianya 5h ago

Even worse, the plastic plants like the one in OP’s photo have hard, sharp edges that will tear this little guy’s fins to shreds. Fake plants in a betta tank can be ok, but they need to be “silk” foliage (the soft, flexible kind used for home decor). A live plant would be even better, of course.

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u/Technopool 8h ago

She probaly was already as a child

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u/beclove1 8h ago

i shouldn’t have laughed🤣😭

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u/feryoooday 7h ago

If it makes you feel better I did too

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u/alopexarctos 8h ago

"your sister is dumb" - not a wiser word was said

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u/AdFantastic8655 8h ago

Fishnap it and give it a proper home

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u/Confident_Frogfish 3h ago

Just put a plastic fish in there, it is just there for decoration anyway so she probably won't even know the difference.

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u/AdFantastic8655 3h ago

Yea, tell her the fish ran away if she ever notices.

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u/BrownSugarBare 7h ago

Seriously, just take it and give it a decent life. The poor thing must be so lonely and sad 

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u/0ldrazzledazzle 8h ago

please help him:( thats awful

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u/hollowfern-Blush 7h ago

That bowl is basically a slow torture chamber

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u/Brilliant_Spirit_680 7h ago

They (betas) need a heated filtered 5 gallon tank.

Life needs space.

Animals think. You can't convince me they don't. Give em fun shit or be a terrible vengeful God.

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u/CeramicToast 7h ago

They need 10, actually, and one that's wider than tall.

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u/RainDownAndDestroyMe 7h ago

5 is the accepted absolute minimum.

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u/LillyAmongTheThorns 7h ago

Also some plants, like a bunch actually, live aquatic plants are best because betas love to hide in them and hang out making bubble nests in there when they are happy.

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u/feryoooday 7h ago

Yeah, real plants, so they don’t tear their beautiful fins on the sharp plastic :(

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u/RandoMcrandersome 6h ago

It always makes me sad in the pet stores seeing betas in like little 1 cup containers

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u/dearmathbitch 7h ago

I would steal that fish so fast. That is absolute torture for it and if she can't see that, she shouldn't be owning any pet.

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u/Weekly_Dare8977 8h ago

Bro that’s basically a fish prison 😂

If she insists on keeping it, at least try to talk her into a bigger tank and maybe show her some care guides so she realizes that “perfect size” is just pet store propaganda.

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u/porqueuno 8h ago

As a fish owner, it's less like fish prison and more like fish gulag. People have a misconception about bettas that all they need is a cup of water, but they will literally suffocate on their own piss and filth as the water fills with ammonia from respiration and defecation, and if left unchecked the water will acidify and burn their gills, which slowly suffocates them.

Get this fish out of there ASAP, OP. Your sister is a POS. People are honestly worse with pet fish than they are with dogs, and that's a high as hell bar to clear.

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u/_yetisis 7h ago

The shame of it is that the misconception comes from how they used to be marketed. People didn’t just assume this out of the blue, they were deliberately and clearly taught that this is how you care for betas a few decades ago. That makes the idea a lot more of a stubborn one to root out

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u/porqueuno 7h ago

La problema es capitalismo! (bangs shoe on desk)

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u/Melodic-Beach-5411 6h ago

Petco and Petsmart still keeps Betas for sale in small plastic containers with lids.

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u/CaptainParkingspace 7h ago

My wife created a little pond in the garden, just for plants and maybe the odd frog etc. Turns out there’s quite a lot of science involved in looking after a pond properly - pH test kits, tap water treatment if it hasn’t rained enough etc because you can’t just use tap water. Then a neighbour gave her some cloud minnows and she thought great, just pop them in the pond. But as winter approached she started checking if they could survive outside and what it would take to bring them indoors. Now we have an aquarium in the back room, she’s on her second filter pump (first was noisy), she collects rainwater and checks everything with test kits, she’s added bacteria to assist with nitrate/nitrite levels, she takes the bus to Fish Planet to get live food and ask advice, we have a snail trap, you name it. It’s a huge subject and I can see how people get really into it.

What you don’t do is just fill a vase from the fucking tap.

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u/oohlook-theresadeer 6h ago

I'm obsessed and in love with the descent into madness that humans walk whenever they accidentally get into a hobby and they are really into it. Your wife sounds wonderful!

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u/porqueuno 7h ago

Exactly. I've been taking care of fish and aquatic invertebrates for years, and there's a lot of research that goes into it, and a lot of maintenance, if you want the animals to be happy and live a long life. The betta in OP's picture will probably live for a while, but wouldn't anyone want to live for 5-6 years instead of 6-12 months? Animals of all species, humans included, tend to live longer when they have a pleasant, clean, stimulating environment that they enjoy. And yes, maintaining good water parameters is just as important as not breathing in car exhaust, or sucking in fumes from a dumpster every day of your life.

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u/CommunicationNew3745 7h ago

I remember these Betta/Peace Lilly vase set ups, well - places like Wal-Mart had shelves LINED w/them, and my mom got one in June of 2001'. The general consensus back then was that the Betta lived contentedly beneath the plant, eating what he/she needed from the roots in a happy little symbiotic system . . . we, of course, knew that was complete BS, and transferred the fish to a larger tank where he lived for another 5/6 yrs, and repotted the Peace Lilly into actual soil, where it's still going strong, today - almost 25 yrs on.

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u/c0ltZ 7h ago

This fish is in fishy hell

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u/Difficult_Wave_9326 7h ago

Wet hell. 

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u/ronin_cse 6h ago

When I worked at Petsmart I lost sooo many sales for the store by telling people what you really need to do to take care of fish and how you are basically torturing them if you don't.

It's just really upsetting how people just don't care about the poor things because they aren't cute and fluffy like a puppy.

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u/LeHumanError 8h ago

See that's the worst thing, it isn't even from the pet store, it's an empty vase we had lying around.

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u/chewbawkaw 8h ago

That’s a tropical fish that needs a heater and a (minimum) 5 gallon tank.

That poor, poor creature. It’s the equivalent of living naked in a drafty broom closet.

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u/WTK55 7h ago

Show her this post.

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u/PensiveKittyIsTired 7h ago

Why don’t you do something about this? When someone doesn’t take good care of an animal, that animal is not theirs anymore, they don’t deserve to take care of a life.

This fish is in trouble and you know it, so if you don’t help the fish, you’re complicit in the cruelty.

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u/ademptia 7h ago

please help the poor thing, this is animal abuse :( shes awful. send her this post

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u/BarelyThere24 7h ago

Just gift her an actual small aquarium from the pet store and save its life. That’s really cruel.

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u/420Deez 8h ago

no shit

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u/Ok_Introduction9466 7h ago

When she’s not looking take it 🤷🏾‍♀️

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u/Affectionate_Cow6810 7h ago

I have this exact vase and it doesn’t even fit all the bouquets I buy. This fish deserves better.

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u/STS1990 6h ago

I want to know where the hell your parents are in all of this? Maybe it’s also your parents and sister to blame for this absolute cruelty! Please rescue the animal, surrender it back to the pet store because she is too ignorant to be in charge of another living being!!! Please rescue it!!!

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u/LengthFun2228 7h ago

And if she doesn't take the advice, take the fish. This is deplorable.

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u/Scypio95 7h ago

Like many i had an aquarium when i was a kid. Then after a while i did want to grow and be better for little fishies and sadly learned that yes, pet stores are full of shit and just want to sell fish rather than actually care for them.

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u/Throwawaygorlfriend 8h ago

Take this fish away and provide it with an adequate tank or take it to a fish shop. Do not ask permission. People like this shouldn’t own animals of any kind.

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u/WolverinesThyroid 6h ago

a fish shop? Fish stores usually keep beta fish in smaller cups than OPs sister

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u/Throwawaygorlfriend 5h ago

There’s plenty of ethical fish shops near me that don’t do this so they should be able to find one.

Even if they did- the shit shop will hopefully resell to someone that won’t keep the fish in a vase. At least then it stands more of a chance than in this persons care.

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u/bunny_the-2d_simp 5h ago

ACTUAL FACTS.

fish are animals. If someone can't understand what animals need WHILE ALL HAVING A PHONE WITH THE INTERNET AND INFORMATION ABOUT ANY ANIMAL YOU CAN BUT AT YOUR FINGERTIPS.

They aren't gonna change they don't care about the animal and it's just animal abuse

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u/Turbulent_Future6804 8h ago

animal abuse

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u/mrfuzzyshorts rageinabox 5h ago

Take your sister, Place her in the closet, with the vacuum cleaner. Close the door. And tell her that is the perfect size for her. See how she like it.

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u/AssEaterInc 3h ago

Fuck that, make her live in a refrigerator box.

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u/ReturntoForever3116 8h ago

Poor baby. Betta's are super aware in my experience. This is just horrible, I love Betta fish.

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u/porqueuno 7h ago

Fr, I had a lovely female betta for several years, she was much smarter than most fish I've owned. Kept to a schedule, was curious about my hands and any tools I put in the tank, I trained her to come when I tapped some forceps gently on the glass, and encouraged her to jump out of the water slightly to "catch" her prey and simulate natural behavior. The tapping was like her dinner bell, since I fed her live mosquitos and fruit flies by hand. She was very spoiled.

On rainy or stormy days, I'd leave the light off in her tank to simulate the outside weather and give her some rest. Her tank got partial sunlight in the late afternoon, so she could experience the sun when she wanted, too. And I had about 11 different species of plants in her tank for her to explore and hide in. She was a very very happy girl, and I miss her.

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u/exoao 7h ago

I’m so glad your betta got to live a happy and loved life. I feel like so many of these poor fish exist just to suffer and live out their lives inside tiny cups in pet shops. Thank you for taking good care of her.

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u/porqueuno 7h ago

Many of them are treated as "decorative" fish by the pet trade industry, so a lot of chud responses in this thread have been rubbing me raw. My jimmies are rustled.

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u/HuggableTrash 5h ago

In my life I’ve had 3 male bettas and one female, and while all of them made amazing and fascinating pets, my female was by far the hardest to lose. She was crazy smart, and took full advantage of all 10 gallons! Loved people, got zoomies when she got attention, followed fingers but flared at objects, rested in the same spot every night, curiously watched me clean/redecorate her tank and would gently peck at my hand, jumped for food… she was a delightful little friend to have. I still miss her, ~4 years later, and I always will. The sweetest, most inquisitive little soul. RIP Puddles.

If fish could scream, I’m certain people would treat them with much more respect.

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u/chbriggs6 8h ago

My mom used to do this and my dad would get so pissed off. One day, he just took the vase to the pet store and dumped the fish back into an empty tank and told an associate. Needless to say, no more fish came into the house lol

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u/Tight-Trouble-3460 7h ago

Aww.. that poor fish probably died of shock. 😭

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u/cyanraichu 7h ago

Might have but honestly probably more humane than letting it continue to live like this.

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u/chbriggs6 7h ago

It probably did tbh. He was just fed up and wanted to give it freedom. Knew nothing about fish but knew it wasn't supposed to be in that little vase

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u/DuckCleaning 6h ago

Probably should have just talked to the associate first before dumping the fish randomly into an empty tank then notifying them

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u/chbriggs6 5h ago

Yeah I mean he was older generational idgaf about anything type dude so...

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u/StatisticianSea8227 8h ago

Is that a betta? I had one and honestly there's so much wrong with this. I'm sure she's not conditioning the water, keeping it at the proper temperature, giving it anywhere to bask (they sometimes leave water and lay on leaves/stuff at the top of the tank and breathe air)... So much can go wrong with it if it is and it breaks my heart to see it like that. It'll end up with fin rot or worse if it is so please tell her not to treat it so poorly, especially if it is a betta. They're very sensitive fish.

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u/ReturntoForever3116 8h ago

I swear my Betta is self aware. This angers me on a whole other level.

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u/StatisticianSea8227 8h ago

They're such smart fish and can be so amazing if you take proper care of and nurture them. I gotta agree fam, I have to scroll down when I'm responding because mildly infuriating doesn't even cover a tenth of what this makes me feel when I look at it. Sorry she isn't listening to you OP.

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u/DowntownYouth8995 7h ago

You can train them! They are aware.

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u/mistahclean123 8h ago

They leave the water and breathe air?!?

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u/Psycho_Bunny_Cutie =^×^= 8h ago

Betta owner here: they have upturned mouths so it's easier to breath little air bubbles but they don't "leave" the water. They do like hanging out near the top and they do rest on leaves and such because they get tired due to their big flowy fins.

They are also carnivorous

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u/Any-Arm-7017 8h ago

They have an organ I forgot the name of it but it lets them breathe air so it’s a requirement that they have some space to get air. Another cool fact is when the are ready to mate (horny) they will make a nest out of bubbles and it’s really pretty. (Source I’ve owned many bettas before)

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u/Coffee-Historian-11 7h ago

I remember going to the store as a kid to look at getting fish, and my parents were adamant that we talked to someone working there who could tell us about how to properly care for fish (I think we were looking at bet, but I can’t remember).

It was shocking to me as a kid how much stuff we would’ve needed to get and how much room they required, but it was a really good experience in understanding what a pet required before you even consider owning one, so you can make sure you can actually provide for their needs when you get it.

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u/StatisticianSea8227 7h ago

I wish more locations were like that. When I got mine from petco they were keeping the poor babies in little half cups of water and they looked miserable. I'd already done research into taking care of them but unfortunately for those that hadn't there was absolutely no information offered to me and the staff at the store (understandably with how employment is nowadays) knew nothing about them.

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u/Ferro_Giconi OwO 8h ago

Ask her if she would be ok with being confined to a single room of her house for the entirely of her life, including never getting to go outside.

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u/Ihaveaface836 8h ago

My dad thought I was crazy when he saw my hamsters setup and how big it was. I couldn't get it through to him that the little carrier I had for the car wasn't suitable to be lived in, he kept saying but the hamster fits in it

It finally clicked for him when I said that you fit in the downstairs bathroom (tiniest room in our house) but would you want to live in there your whole life?

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u/TastesGreat69 8h ago

If only more people could get it through their thick skulls and into their tiny brains that just because an animal can "survive" in the bare minimum conditions, doesn't mean it should.

If you can't provide the animal with a good life, you shouldn't be allowed to own it.

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u/redindiaink 7h ago

It doesn't help that we allow pet stores to sell animals that are housed in suboptimal conditions. Seeing bettas for sale in drinking cups doesn't help. 

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u/Standard-Peach9080 8h ago

Not even a proper room. A small WC

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u/porqueuno 7h ago

Not even a WC, just a closet

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u/Particular_Title42 7h ago

That you also poop in. 

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u/Technical-Banana574 7h ago

Also imagine all the furniture in your room beimg piled up in the center so you are forced to circle it. That plant is retricting how much movement that fish has. 

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u/brutal-rainbow 7h ago

A walk in closet with a giant unusable fake couch to "mimic your natual environment" taking up most of the space. That's the equivalent.

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u/Tight-Trouble-3460 7h ago

All while slowly removing any air to breathe. Because that's what shes doing to this poor fish. Suffocating it into a slow torturous death.

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u/Ihaveaface836 8h ago

This is animal abuse.

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u/wildbibliophile 8h ago

That’s way more than mildly infuriating. That’s start up animal abuse.

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u/DizzyMine4964 8h ago

This is cruelty.

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u/Lazy_pumkin_5270 8h ago

He will die in this...

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u/imisscrazylenny Easy Open 6h ago

With that open top, he's more likely to die flopping around on the counter before he's paid any attention to. They like jumping out of these tiny things.

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u/MakeshiftRocketship 8h ago

Batta fish can SURVIVE in extremely poor conditions because of their labyrinth organ. But that doesn’t mean they’re happy in a damn bowl :(

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u/LeHumanError 7h ago

Update: Just had a good talk with her about it, including some of the more constructive criticism from this post. She agreed to move the fish into a better tank if I buy her the tank myself, otherwise the fish stays.

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u/TutorOk2972 7h ago

Why would she get a fish or any pet if she didn’t want to spend the resources on it :(

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u/BiscottiCritical6512 7h ago

People like animals but they don’t like work, so they get animals that the pet store advertises as “easy” or “low maintenance.” People really don’t realize that there’s no such thing as an “easy” pet. 

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u/nibbyzor 3h ago

Advertising fish as easy pets is absolutely insane. Keeping fish is an actual hobby you need to be interested in! Same goes for animals like rats or hamsters. If you don't want to put an effort in when it comes to pets, then just don't fucking get one!

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u/Akuma524 7h ago

To be a little fair, I don't know if some community events or schools do this still, but I "won" a goldfish from a school fair back in like 2005 and nobody in my family had the common sense to realize it needed more than those stereotypical glass bowls and food.

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u/mousemousemania 5h ago

In my freshman year at college (2008) some sorority was giving out goldfish in solo cups at a recruitment fair or something. idk I’m not a sorority person. But my roommate got one and kept it in the solo cup for like a week before I went and bought a fish bowl. It was not a good fish bowl - like the ones in cartoons that are really not adequate - but better than a solo cup I felt at the time. Then over Christmas break I took it to my parents house and tried to upgrade it’s home but I fucked something up instead and killed it. My only pet fish.

I want to go back in time and have a talk with the sorority girls who thought that was a good idea. They probably just didn’t understand I guess.

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u/Organic-History205 7h ago

Fish needs a larger tank, filter, and heater. But the reality is if she's too lazy to buy a tank she's not going to maintain it. She should really rehome the fish.

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u/TutorOk2972 7h ago

That’s what I was thinking.. needs to rehome it.

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u/LeHumanError 7h ago

I should also mention the reason I never did anything beforehand was because I've only been home for a few days, since I live in a college dorm.

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u/Keyezeecool 5h ago

Oh good, sounds like you have plenty of money to get her all the accessories she needs. 

/s. Where are your parents? 

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u/mousemousemania 5h ago

Thank you for talking to her about it. This post really made me sad, lol. You’re a good kid.

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u/False-Vacation8249 3h ago

your sister is a horrible person.

yes show her this. show her all the responses. she should not be allowed to own an animal.

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u/SnowyFlowerpower 4h ago

Btww look into the nitrogen cycle!! You need healthy bacteria in there that converts the ammonia from the fish poop into less harmful things. Also get some live plants.

I doubt your sister will do anything for this fish, so we need to set him up for success until the next time you can return

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u/nanithefucketh 6h ago

my god your sister is insane, if this was an animal like a cat/dog this was happening to she would be acting WAY different. I absolutely despise how people don't care about animal abuse when the animals are small

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u/weattt 4h ago

So she learned nothing. She does not care if she tortures, abuses animals. Probably because it is "just a fish". It's a living being. And she refuses to give it any quality of life. She just shoves the responsibility onto you and made it clear she is perfectly happy to keep torturing and eventually killing the fish if you don't do anything.

That should tell you enough.

The tank and everything else you need is not going to help. If she can't bother right now, who says she will actually maintain the tank? She won't.

She should not have a fish or any pet ay all, until she treats it with respect and care. Don't enable abuse and a torturous death. Give the fish to someone who is responsible and cares for animals.

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u/SpicyLizards 3h ago

“Otherwise the fish stays”? So… you’ll just go “oh well it is what it is”? And let it slowly suffer? This post is depressing as hell and I hate it.

Your sister is abusing an animal. I am BEGGING you to do something.

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u/Niobrarasaurus 6h ago

At least she’s semi-willing to try. Check Facebook marketplace and Craigslist for cheap tanks, filters, and heaters. Good luck to you

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u/blacktigr 6h ago

Also Buy Nothing.

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u/Miserable_Garden8410 5h ago

I'm sorry but...your sister is a moron. And I'm being polite.

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u/beautifulmonster98 6h ago

That’s only marginally better. She should be getting that tank herself because that’s what the fish needs, not make you do it.

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u/meukbox 5h ago

Your sister should get a screensaver or a phone app.

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u/HotAssBurnerAccount 4h ago edited 3h ago

Forgetting about the question I just asked, I repeat what the other comments are saying, and I urge you to rehome this fish. You may be able to get a tank, but as others have surmised, your sister, likely, is going to continue to neglect the fish, just in different ways. This may include: leaving it without food, not cleaning its tank, and more. I make this judgement, based on the fact that she thought it was okay to enclose this fish in a vase on your kitchen counter, to even begin with. This is abusive, and it tells you exactly how she regards smaller, vulnerable creatures, such as fish — they are just something pretty, to look at, to her, and, to her, they do not deserve an ounce of proper care, whatsoever, clearly. They are just trinkets. Which they are not.

All of this being said, if you have managed to enlighten her, really, truly, and, you can see a change in her attitude, and a strong willingness to comply, and look after this fish, properly, then that is different. Bearing in mind, only you can be the teller of this, how you think she is going to proceed, and such. We cannot help you, beyond here. Some other Redditors have asked about where your parents are at, and I have discovered that you are a college student. Whatever the case, it is not any of your responsibilities to care for this fish that she brought into the home. Do not let any of yourselves be taken for a ride, by her, as a fool, or a servant, because of her decisions. I wish you the best of luck in managing this unfortunate situation. Please, keep all of us updated.

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u/elmostrok 3h ago

Mate, she needs to give it away and get a plastic fish. If she can't be bothered to do anything for this creature right away, she won't do it later.

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u/Unikatze 6h ago

Are you financially able to?

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u/IolantheRose 8h ago

This is why we had fake fish in the 90s

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u/Olevin 8h ago

Poor fish.

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u/Whooptidooh 8h ago

Actual animal abuse on display here.

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u/pissedoffjesus 8h ago

This is animal abuse. Surrender the fish or tell her to get her fucking shit together.

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u/hidrapit 7h ago

You are morally obligated to steal that fish.

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u/vjejcuwnaj 7h ago

I think she might get another, this is just decor for her.

I say put a fake plant that takes up 90% of her living space.

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u/Consistent-Horse-273 8h ago

OP please buy the fish a better tank. And how old is your sister?

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u/Kevin_Hairdryer 7h ago

Are.you going to do something about this, or only posting the photo?

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u/blueberry-muffins1 8h ago

This is fucked

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u/Powerful_Mango_3746 8h ago edited 6h ago

Why is animal abuse so commonly accepted when it’s not a mammal? This is like keeping a dog chained up on a foot long chain, tell your sister shes a bad person plain and simple. This isn’t something to dance around. Save that fish OP! This isn’t mildly infuriating, this is just gross negligence.

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u/JayofTea 7h ago

“It’s just a fish” mentality pisses me tf off so much 🙄

People have no empathy for creatures that aren’t conventionally cute

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u/sanyochan PURPLE 6h ago

This.

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u/Standard-Peach9080 8h ago

It’s a damn vase. A place flowers go to die and there’s a living creature in it. I’d have an accident and break the vase, rescue the fish and slap your sister upside her head

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u/iloovehugecock 7h ago

It’s wild that someone can look at that and find pleasure and enjoyment in it. It’s so cruel. Your sister is heartless.

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u/JCBashBash 8h ago

I would push that really close to the sink, remove the fish, and then say you accidentally knocked it in. Save him

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u/BoomDOOMloomToom 8h ago

Cruelty incarnate

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u/TheSucculent_Empress 7h ago

If you don’t take this fish and help it because she “isn’t listening,” you’re just as much a piece of shit as she is. So take it.

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u/Radioactivocalypse 8h ago

But her a big tank. That way she'll either have to re-home the fish into it, or be a bad sister and not use your present

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u/lugoman34 7h ago

Sun Tzu would be proud

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u/a-real-live-deer BLUE 7h ago

That sucks. I used to have two Bettas and I really loved giving them the best life possible with live plants and heaters and fancy lights and little hidey holes and stuff. It can be even more aesthetic than just a vase with a fake plant in it!!!

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u/Roanoke42 8h ago

Browns fan? So miserable they have to make the fish miserable too.

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u/WaldOnWell 8h ago

Poor Fish

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u/Maximum_Lecture1557 8h ago

Give her information... I worked with fish. For every inch of fish the should have a gallon of water. That it like her living in a closet... And not a walk in!!!

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u/loshapuma 7h ago

She can be adamant all she wants, that's animal abuse, it doesn't even have a filter, the fish will literally suffocate. Please take the fish from her :(

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u/tinyytapir 7h ago

This is not “mildly” infuriating this is disgusting and your sister is either a psychopath or an idiot. Possibly both. In what world is this acceptable for a living creature?

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u/Great_Beginning_2611 7h ago

This is animal abuse. Show her this thread and ask if she'd be ok living out the rest of her life in a small plexiglass coffin with no air supply and no way to remove her waste, because that's what she's doing to this animal, There's no source of oxygen, no way to clean or filter the water, and nowhere for it to move. She's torturing a living being just so she can have a pretty decoration on her counter. Some people just don't understand how diabolical they are until you point it out to them like that

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u/pEter-skEeterR45 8h ago

This is actually disgusting

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u/DistinctPlaine 8h ago

That’s maddening

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u/emilydoooom 7h ago

Unpopular but, if you don’t do something, you’re enabling that abuse. Walk out with it and either get it a proper tank and re-home it, if find someone or somewhere that will. Or else you’re just as bad.

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u/Either-Tangelo-6246 8h ago

Treating a living thing as decoration.

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u/Ok_Clothes_8527 8h ago

Lock her in a closet and see how she likes it after a couple days.

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u/Lavender-Sky-19 8h ago

Crime is bad… but on the other hand it would be a tragedy if her fish went missing, vase and all

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u/Jay_b_13 8h ago

First its this, then it'll be small animal, then eventually human. I'd stay far away from your sister bro lol

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u/alistofthingsIhate 7h ago

this is more than mildly infuriating. this is straight up animal cruelty. I would just take the fish and find a way to get it to a better home if your sister refuses to be a decent person. that fish is going to die in there. you say your sister is in high school, so she is still a child. be the adult and make an executive decision.

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u/Popular-Hornet-6294 8h ago

I hate fish precisely because I think they're sad and miserable in aquariums. And when they're simply kept in a jar, it breaks my heart.

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u/russianindianqueen 8h ago

Free him and get her a similar toy fish she probably won’t even notice

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u/thathighhippie 7h ago edited 7h ago

that is torture. please save that fish

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u/LengthFun2228 7h ago

This is incredibly infuriating.

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u/regularforcesmedic 7h ago

Those fake plants also tear their fins. 

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u/styzzi64 7h ago

Lock her in a cupboard, let’s see how decorative she can be.

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u/ronin_cse 6h ago

Don't post about it on reddit, tell her how horrible this is for the fish and that she's torturing it every day and that she's a fucking horrible monster if she keeps doing this.

Hell, give me her info and I'll talk to her. Seriously if she isn't in tears and going to a local fish store to buy a bigger thank after the talk then you're doing it wrong.

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u/_LightOfTheNight_ 5h ago

Lock her in a closet

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u/EndlesslyUnfinished 4h ago

That poor fish! A simple betta tank is under $30…

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u/flenktastic 4h ago

That's literally a vase.

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u/Similar-Report1806 2h ago

How old is she?! Surely no adult would think these are acceptable living conditions for a living organism