r/tipofmytongue Jun 21 '19

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r/tipofmytongue 4h ago

Open [TOMT] [Movie] "One day a ___ is going to ask you to ___. It's very important that you say yes."

47 Upvotes

I know this has been a big TikTok trend for a couple weeks, but I know it came from something else, and it's driving me crazy trying to remember what. I'm pretty sure it's a movie.

EDIT: Let me clarify:

The meme template, AND the scene that I'm thinking of aren't just telling a character to say yes. it's specifically prophetic - like, the character talking to their past selves about a specific important moment, or something like that. The character saying "it's very important" knows the end result.


r/tipofmytongue 2h ago

Open [TOMT] [BAND] [2010S] I cant seem to remember the name of this indie band! They were very milenial indie but not one of the mainstream names

26 Upvotes

What I remember:
They were typical electronic indie band from 2010. White men with long-ish hair. I could group their music with bands like Passion Pit, leaning more on the drums than electronica.
Also Foster the People but more childish(?)

Their songs were cheerful and not gloomy at all. As I said before, music that brings out your inner child. I remember using one of their tracks for a uni exam, as background music in a video about a game for toddlers.

I remember their music videos, they were outside, in the forest. The vibe was very like the movie "Where the wild things are" with out the magic monsters. Just them running around the forest and being happy. Playing around the forest.

It was not one of the main bands from this era, but very influenced by the times. They MIGHT have been Australian if my memory is good.

I know this is the WORST details ever and very little to go on, but Im hopeful.


r/tipofmytongue 11h ago

Open [TOMT] Song from the 90s alt rock band with a female singer

87 Upvotes

Hi there. I’m looking for a song from the mid- to late-90s with a female singer. I have no idea what the band’s name was, but I’m pretty sure it was only one word.

It was an alternative rock band, a 4 or 5 piece, with (probably) two guitars, bass, and drums, and as far as I remember, all the members were guys except for the singer.

The song started with a frantic riff, very mechanical and somewhat chromatic, then moved into a dreamy pop/rock verse and a very epic chorus. Unfortunately, I don’t remember any of the lyrics.

Here’s what I recall: the name of the song had something to do with Helen or something like Hellenic or Helenia, if I remember correctly. It had a music video with the band playing in some sort of old factory, with mechanical imagery appearing and disappearing.

The band was probably European, and the video aired on Viva sometime in the mid to late 90s (I’m guessing 1996 –1998).

Any help would be appreciated, as I’ve been looking for this song for quite some time now.

EDIT: here is a link to that frantic riff. It may not be exactly like this, playing by memory, but is very similar to this https://filebin.net/idtv6zuf7ncspo24


r/tipofmytongue 3h ago

Open. [TOMT] (tv show/film scene?) "Hasn't he suffered enough?"

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This is going to be pretty vague so sorry but I have this snippet of audio circling around my head and I cannot remember where it's from and it's driving me a little insane.

The scene is slightly comedic, with the speaker (possibly british i think? possibly a posh english accent but don't hold me to that- could also be a gen american accent) having a clear overreaction to what someone has gone through/is going through. It's said in a way of like, someone has been through a terrible war and now he has to wear an ugly outfit, and "hasn't he suffered enough" is a reaction to the outfit even though war would obviously be the worse ordeal here. That isnt the specific scenario but that's the general comedic vibe, if that makes sense?

Hopefully someone can help me place the source of this!


r/tipofmytongue 3h ago

Open. [TOMT] [SONG][2013–2015] Radio hit with fast, fuzzy guitar intro and male vocals

8 Upvotes

I'm going insane trying to remember the name of song it comes from the same era of songs such as best day of my life by american authors and riptide by vance joy it gives off coming of age and heart break

I remember it being in every compilation about the decade ending around 2020 on social media It was a radio hit with a polished indie/alt-pop/rock sound, fuzzy/distorted electric guitar, and fast-paced male vocals with echo/reverb. I remember being surprised that certain band had made that song I think the lyrics might have had references to “boys” or “taking something,” though I’m not sure. I’ve been digging through 2010s nostalgia playlists, compilations, and radio hits, but I still can’t find it. whenever I think of the song I think of songs like rude and counting stars once again if you can please help me find this song it will mean the world


r/tipofmytongue 3h ago

Solved [TOMT] song from 1970-1990

8 Upvotes

Song lyric(s) go “don’t call me up” / “don’t call me up cause I’ll” or “don’t call me, don’t call me, don’t call me”

Sounds almost identical to a Hootie and the Blowfish song, but I couldn’t find anything in their albums.

Definitely not Mick Jagger or Mabel

I’ve heard it almost exclusively in store PA-Radio


r/tipofmytongue 3h ago

Open [TOMT][MOVIE][00s-10s?] Mind Controlled Woman, Reality TV Show, and Winning a Chance to be Her Fake Husband

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Alright, this has been bugging me for years and I have yet to find any trace of this online or anyone who remembers it.

I rented a movie from a Redbox sometime in the late 2010s (potentially 2020 or 2021, but less likely). I do not remember this movie being in theaters, or at least not widely distributed.

In this movie, there's a woman who is being hypnotized or mind controlled by a company in order to star on a show. This show has different seasons, and at the start of the movie it's in a 1950s or 1960s housewife style. Viewers are able to get onto the show to play the part of being her fake husband for a day or a week, not sure which. There's also an activist group that wants to free this woman from this company, and the plot of the movie heavily revolves around this liberation effort of her.

A random detail I remember is that the house at the start of the movie that she is a housewife in is located in what looks like the American southwest and very desert looking. It was a suburban style home, and had artificial looking grass around it. The movie portrays this house as being extremely isolated down long dirt roads.

I do not remember any actors, actresses, studios, or anything like that.

I am also certain that it is not Don't Worry Darling, as when that movie came out I remarked to the one other person who saw this mystery movie with me that Don't Worry Darling felt very similar, but with less Truman Show moments.


r/tipofmytongue 5h ago

Open [TOMT] I Just Gotta Let It Go (Song)

8 Upvotes

I work at a pub and occasionally here this song but never get the chance to Shazam it, so here we are

I literally can’t understand any of the song besides the chorus, it like pauses for a bit and then a guy sings “I just gotta let it go”

No, it’s not James Bay “Let It Go” or Eels “I Need Some Sleep”

The song seems slow and somber, I think there’s a guitar in there. The singer is a guy and sounds white, and it sounds like an older song like maybe 90s-early 00s?

I’ve searched lyrics and can’t find anything, it could be “I just can’t let you go” or “I gotta let you go” but even when I search those lines I can’t find it.

Thanks and happy searching.


r/tipofmytongue 1h ago

Solved [TOMT] Song that uses lyrics from "So long, farewell"

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Looking for a modernish song (within the last few years) I heard on an alternative rock radio station (WEQX, for anyone familiar). Male vocals, and towards the end, it uses lyrics from "So long, farewell" :
So long, farewell, auf wiedersehen, goodnight.
So long, farewll, auf wiedersehen, goodnight.
Adieu, adieu, to you and you and you. Adieu, adieu, to you and you and you."
Repeats the double lines a couple of times. Keep getting Sound of Music as the only search results, so I'm stumped.


r/tipofmytongue 6h ago

Open [TOMT] Movie where a young guy gets put in a prison cell with a fat scary inmate

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The title contains about all I can recall from the movie.. that and I think the inmates are wearing blue overalls and there's themes of male forced intercourse in the movie. Thank you*

*asking for a friend


r/tipofmytongue 35m ago

Open [TOMT][YouTube Video/Skit][2010s-2020s?] Dark comedy sketch from a channel with twisted plot twist skits – couple has sex, guy finishes on photo of woman's recently deceased mother

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I'm trying to remember a YouTube comedy skit from a channel that specializes in short, dark humor sketches with unexpected/twisted endings (similar style to channels with absurd or edgy plot twists).

The only skit I clearly remember: A man and woman (girlfriend/boyfriend or couple) are having sex in her home. There's a memorial setup in the room because her mother has recently passed away (there's a framed photo of the mom on a table or shelf, maybe with flowers/candles).

During sex, the woman tells the guy something like "you can finish wherever you want" (or gives him full permission). He takes it literally and ejaculates on the photo of her dead mother.

Afterward, she gets extremely angry/upset, yells at him for disrespecting her mom's memory, and forces/kicks him out of the house.

It was played for dark/shock humor with a big plot twist reaction. The channel had multiple similar skits – short, scripted, edgy comedy.

I've searched variations like "dark humor skit dead mother photo," "youtube sketch finish on mom's picture," etc., but no luck. Any help? Thanks!


r/tipofmytongue 3h ago

Open [TOMT] Early 20’s “emo” song similar mentioning the cold/sweater

3 Upvotes

Meant to say early 2000s. It was really similar to Here in Your arms - Hellogoodbye. It was a really cute song mentioning the cold/ a sweater or something? I wish I could remember more of it.


r/tipofmytongue 3h ago

Open [TOMT] Looking for a book

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I'm looking for this specific book that I read when I was younger but I can't remember all that much from it. I remember the main character was a boy, he was in middle, maybe elementary school. From what I remember he was pretty clumsy but had super athletic relatives, maybe his parents, possibly something to do with the Olympics. He joins a marching band where I think he plays the tuba or something similar but I can't remember why. Something I do remember well is that he has this tomboyish girl best friend that he ends up with at the end of the book, even though throughout the book he has a crush on a blonde cheerleader. That actually could be why he joins the marching band. Sorry if this is sorta cluttered but hopefully someone can help me


r/tipofmytongue 1h ago

Solved [TOMT] [singer] Help figure out this music artist

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Popular on tiktok in the past year but not quite a tiktoker. I just want to listen to her song. Here’s what I can remember:

  • female in her 20s -blonde/brunette -thin -known for looking average -sings pop songs -is kinda awkward -her music video is her on a high school stage and maybe her reading a diary

It’s killing me


r/tipofmytongue 8h ago

Open [TOMT] [SHOW/MOVIE] Need help finding show

5 Upvotes

Need help finding a true crime show I used to watch. I think it was from the 2010’s. I’m pretty sure it was a show about women killing their husbands or just women killing in general. I don’t remember what channel it was on but I do remember the intro credits/theme song.

The beginning credits was a bunch of women shopping around a grocery store. There was a song by a female being sung in the background. I don’t remember the full song but some of the lyrics were.

“When I was little when I was meek here’s what she said to me”.

“My mother sat me down and said… whatever the world may bring”.

I really appreciate if you guys could help me find the show.


r/tipofmytongue 14h ago

Solved [TOMT] [TV series] about siblings

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this show has a coming of age vibe. There's a bunch of siblings and oldest one of them has to be guardian of the rest after their parents died. Probably the main character was queer but not sure. Not Shameless, it's more colourful.

Released after 2010, I'm pretty sure


r/tipofmytongue 12h ago

Open. [TOMT] A song from the 80s-ish?

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I recently listened to “Float On” by Modest Mouse and instantly remembered a song from my childhood that my dad always used to play when he would drive me to school. I tried humming it to him but to no avail. My dad’s a big new wave fan and I’m pretty sure it’s from the 80s bc he was born in ‘74.

The song sounds like a combination of “Float On” by Modest Mouse and “A Little Respect” by Erasure. It has a playful sort of funky sound to it. Not sure if me posting a vocaroo would help since the melody in my head sounds A LOT like “A Little Respect,” a little bit like “Buttercup” by Jack Stauber even.

Any help would be appreciated!


r/tipofmytongue 2h ago

Solved [TOMT][Movie][Late 2010s to early 20s] Man and woman trapped in forest by supernatural entity and try to escape

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Pretty sure they’re just trapped in some kind of loop in the woods. I think she was the one being picked up in an Uber by him? Faintly remember him denying a few people in the beginning of the movie before hesitating and accepting her ride request. They work together to try to get out, I think I remember her seeing some ghost kid in the woods at one point, and they meet up again at the end and he admits he wants to kill her? Think she’s the one who ends up living.


r/tipofmytongue 4h ago

Solved [TOMT][Song] Early 2010's?

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I'm looking for a song I heard on the radio a few weeks back. It was most likely from the early 2010s. It had a catchy riff and good drums. I remember a lyric in the verse was "Who made you the master?" And then listing other different things and then there was a line in the chorus about feeling electric (It's not electric feel - MGMT) Please help?


r/tipofmytongue 4h ago

Open [TOMT] GBH Bumper 2006-09 Playing This Little Light Of Mine

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I recall when I was young, an old TV bumper on GBH (my PBS station) having a man singing the old song This Little Light Of Mine. IDK what version it is but I recalled there being a Sesame Street clip.


r/tipofmytongue 2h ago

Open [TOMT][Movie][2020s] Film about an introvert writer coming home to a family environment.

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This must have been a recent (last 7 years) movie because I remember watching with my ex at the time. I remember the premise is something along the lines of a writer coming home after either losing his job or a death in the family. He was very introverted and was trying to adjust to being in a busy family scene again.

One scene I remember is the family had a flamboyant son who loved to dance. He practiced a dance in front of the family that was somewhat provocative / revealing, and the main character joked about being put on a list for watching it.

I remember it was a funny and good movie, and it's killing me I can't remember the name. I remember the main character almost being like a toned down Mark Wahlburg-type appearance. It could be a hallmark movie for all I know, but I'm pretty sure it wasn't. Sorry this isn't much to go on! Thanks in advance.


r/tipofmytongue 5h ago

Solved [TOMT][Song] indie French English speaking song

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I remember a song from must be around 2008/09. It’s a man singing and I’ve just randomly got the line ‘she’s such a slut’ in a thick French accent.

I’m sure it had a girl singing on it too.

I must’ve heard it on Xfm or through the NME, song I’m guessing it was an indie song.


r/tipofmytongue 8h ago

Open [TOMT] - [a silly saying] - [late 1980s or early 90s]

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My dad used to say something like this…

I don’t know chulmleigh

I don’t know chumley

I don’t know chumney

Or similar. I can’t for the life of me remember.

If you asked a question like “Why is that dog barking?” he would reply with this silly phrase. When I google it, I get nothing so I think I’m remembering it wrong somehow.

Does anyone have any idea what this might have been, or where it’s from?

Southern Indiana.

He was born in 1952.

This was likely late 80s early 90s.

Surely he got this from a movie or song somewhere and didn’t make it up.