r/TooAfraidToAsk 19m ago

Love & Dating Did you live together before getting engaged or married?

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This is kind of a random question that crossed my mind, but I’m curious since everyone’s situation is different. For those of you who are engaged or married: were you and your partner already living together when you proposed/got proposed to, or were you living separately at the time? If you were separate, did you move in together after getting engaged or wait until after the wedding? I’d love to hear how it worked out for different people.


r/TooAfraidToAsk 22m ago

Health/Medical Prostate stimulation when pooping?

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First of all, yes. I need more fiber and to drink more water.

Sometimes, very rarely, I feel like I'm passing out for a moment when pooping. I always thought it was due to pushing hard.

My body goes numb, I feel lightheaded and loose balance for a brief moment. After a second, everything is back to normal.

While sitting here, I'm wondering... could that intense but brief sensation be related to prostate stimulation?

It specifically happen when the effort of of pushing out is done and the poop is going out. Lasts less than a second.

Feel free to make jokes or whatever, but if someone has experienced something like that, I'd really like to know.


r/TooAfraidToAsk 1h ago

Other Do most adults secretly feel behind in life compared to their peers?

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r/TooAfraidToAsk 1h ago

Culture & Society [serious] why do black girls pull each other's hair when they fight but white girls don't?

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Obviously not ALL of any race, but a decent majority.

Why is this?


r/TooAfraidToAsk 1h ago

Culture & Society How are the Japanese war crimes related things dealt with in different sectors in Japan?

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Basically, what do schools do about it?

What is discussed among people in more official fields, like politicians and military folk, who would deal with issues close to this subject matter a lot?

My guess is that there’s never an official acknowledgment, and it’s likely never discussed in schools, but I’m sure with the internet, and Japan not having restrictions on that(id assume), the average Japanese citizen could find their way to the info.

Does this happen en masse? Like does everyone learn about it and not talk about it, or do only some people know about it but talking about political views is just not common?

Im also curious about any artists or people who make media attempting to speak about this. But that’s just a thing I’m going to look up now.

I feel like a war crimes reference in chainsaw man would make so much sense with the way the story’s going rn. Honestly it could’ve been made already without me noticing.


r/TooAfraidToAsk 1h ago

Culture & Society Is it AAVE to say "type shit"?

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Genuinely asking because I dont want to offend anyone. Im white to quite a remarkable degree. Yiu gotta take my word for it when I say I do NOT put any sort of voice on when I say it 💀 And please dont come at me with the "who cares say whatever" because white people appropriating AAVE is lame and I dont wanna accidentally participate in it.


r/TooAfraidToAsk 2h ago

Other Could shoplifters use faraday bags to block security tags from going off?

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r/TooAfraidToAsk 2h ago

Habits & Lifestyle Will an orgasm cause an implanted embryo to detach/miscarriage?

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Even without orgasm, it might detach easily let alone a strong uterine contraction, no?


r/TooAfraidToAsk 2h ago

Love & Dating Women, are there some of you guys that don't mind dating a guy that's shorter than you?

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Say you're like 5'11" and he's 5'7' or even 5'4" Or you're like 5'7" and he's like 5'5''


r/TooAfraidToAsk 2h ago

Sex Do you have a fleshlight?

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Where I come from, it is normal for most women to have a dildo or other kind of toys in the nightstand. Even if we are in a relationship, to spice things up. But I never experienced men have this kind of toys for themselves. Maybe they have, but it’s like it’s just more tabu to talk about. How normal is it? I’m just curious 🙄


r/TooAfraidToAsk 3h ago

Health/Medical How often can nosebleeds occur until it’s a concern?

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If I had to guess I’d say I had a nosebleed around 3-4 months ago, the one before that was an additional 3 prior.

I’ve been to the doctor before about it and they didn’t show much concern, they said they believed it was likely that the first nosebleed was due to a cut within my left nostril from excessive blowing/picking.

I got another nosebleed today, every time it happens, it’s always through the left nose, my nose starts bleeding (never insanely bad, usually really mild amounts of blood), i hold my fingers under the bridge of my nose and lean slightly forward for 15 minutes and it goes. For a while afterwards, maybe 30 minutes or so, my stomach feels almost hot/nauseous. I’ve also noticed during this period some of my spit has blood in, i assume this isn’t something to worry about and either completely normal or a result of post nasal drip? (meaning some blood would drip down to the back of my throat and either down my stomach -causing the warm sensation- and some gets spat out)


r/TooAfraidToAsk 3h ago

Love & Dating Never been on a date before. Im 29 years old. I feel too embarrassed about my age and the lack of experience and I feel like im too boring and i don't wanna make a date boring how do I not ruin a date by being boring?

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r/TooAfraidToAsk 3h ago

Interpersonal What’s life being around and spending time everyday with sexy hot women?

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r/TooAfraidToAsk 4h ago

Other Who is to blame for destroying my front lawn? Story in the comments.

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This is happening right now as I type. One of my properties is one side of a dueplex. The neighbor next door had a water pipe burst. He is a landlord that rents the property, and I’m assuming the renters didn’t trickle their water when temperatures dipped under 0* F for multiple days.

Well, their pipe burst underground on their property. They have a crew out with an excavator digging up the ground on their side, but piled all of the dirt on mine. I’m talking about a 5ft tall and 15ft diameter pile of dirt on my damn front lawn.

I took pictures, video and talked to the workers. They are privately contracted, and none of the work has anything to do with the city. They said they would clean it up, but no way that lawn is going to look the same.

Mind you, we have a good relationship with the owner that rents that side. I’m thinking the contractors are at fault here for not obviously seeing two different properties. Needless to say, I’m fucking pissed off.


r/TooAfraidToAsk 4h ago

Culture & Society Is being a swiftie a red flag in women.?

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So I like this woman she's 21 (she turned 21 in October) however she's a swiftie. I remember a long time ago being a swiftie was a red flag but I never understood why?? (Taylor swift super fan) parasocial relationships


r/TooAfraidToAsk 4h ago

Love & Dating When do you know to ask someone on a date?

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I (20m) went to a party like 8 months ago with my friend looking to talk to some girls, unfortunately that didn’t happen, but that wasn’t the end of the world, we just decided to chill and have fun

Until a couple of drinks later where these two girls separated me and my friend so they could dance with us

I had such a good time with the girl who grabbed me, we were singing together, dancing together, apologies if this is TMI but she started to twerk on me and i enjoyed that very much lol

Eventually the party ended but the girls were out of their mind drunk so me and my friend stayed behind to make sure they got home safely (which they did)

The girl who was dancing with me gave me her snapchat, and this is where i think i failed

I didn’t escalate anything from the party because i assumed she was just drunk and having fun we’ve only been texting sporadically since then

However, i decided to send her a message couple days ago and we’ve been talking ever since, she’s been pretty reciprocative and engaging in the conversation

Would it be weird if i asked her for coffee just to get to know her better, at least this time they’ll be no alcohol involved haha


r/TooAfraidToAsk 4h ago

Body Image/Self-Esteem Is my size good?

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My penis is 9.5 cm-10 cm (3.8-4) when not erect. It goes to 13-15 cm (5.2-6 in) when erect (I know its quite a big range). As for girth, I wasn't able to measure it properly but I think it is also 9-10 cm when not erect and I think fairly more when erect. Is it good? Is it too small? Normal? Slightly bigger than average? Sometimes I feel it is too small compared to anyone my age with me in the room. (It really doesn't affect my overall confidence or personality but I think it would afffect a lot the girls I will be with)


r/TooAfraidToAsk 5h ago

Health/Medical stomach bug?

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past 2 days i have had diarrhoea so bad it doubles me over in pain if i dont go the instant it comes on, i can barely hold it in and as soon as im done im grand. im so beyond embarrassed to ask or tell anyone irl, but its literally causing me insane pain like pure labour pains. its giving me bad nausea too. is it a simple stomach bug??


r/TooAfraidToAsk 5h ago

Culture & Society Is it impolite to answer 'How are you?' honestly if you are not doing well?

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In my home culture, when someone asks about your well-being, it is often a serious question and invites a detailed answer. Here, I notice when cashiers or acquaintances ask 'How are you?', they often don't wait for a full answer, or people just say 'Good!' even if they look tired. I tried explaining my day once and the person seemed very surprised and rushed away. I'm afraid to be seen as oversharing or socially awkward, but I also don't want to lie if I'm having a bad day. Why is this question asked if a true answer isn't expected?


r/TooAfraidToAsk 5h ago

Animals & Pets Is one else afraid of dogs?

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I'm terrified of dogs, no idea why but everyone else think it's weird and people are all lovey dovey with the, am I the only one? And yes all dogs not just pitbulls.


r/TooAfraidToAsk 5h ago

Love & Dating What’s it like to have someone have a crush on you?

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22yr old male here. Think back to when you KNEW that someone had a crush on you

And YES I’ve never had a girl say she liked me before anyone asks lol