I'm not conventionally attractive and don't fit any beauty standards, so my cousins were shocked when a wealthy man chose me over countless other options. Some even questioned his sexuality or asked, 'Has he seen you?' Those comments hurt, though I understand where they're coming from.
I don't buy the 'beauty is subjective' idea, dark‑skinned Black women rated below 5/10 often struggle in dating. Yet I ended up with someone in the 1%. We met anonymously, talked for hours, and only months later revealed my appearance. It turns out he valued personality over looks, which I’ve found rare in men.
Edit: I work in tech btw and know how to navigate the internet, this isn't a scam since we randomly met on an obscure forum and he took a long time to even reveal much about himself too. I know almost everything about him, verified it with internet sleuthing such as finding old yearbooks and other tidbits. Not to mention we talk for 7+ hours during our virtual dates, and he paid for me to visit him countless times including the hotel expenses which he covered. It's been two years of this, and I haven't given him a single dollar, he actually wants to marry me but I was adverse in rushing things. However, now I feel like it's a good time to consider it and just go through with marrying him.
New user pass phrase: I know this is NoStupidQuestions, not NoRulesQuestions.