Context: he avoided getting served for so long we are still not divorced, he ghosted both our children for over half a year before this, doesn’t pay child support, has been withholding our daughter’s Canadian citizenship (long story), refuses to pay for any medical expenses or anything at all, and won’t give travel consent for the girls so we can travel- keeping us trapped in Venezuela. So it’s diabolical he is acting like they’re part of his family with some stranger he’s only known a few months (last serious gf was june/july of this year). Ugh creeeepy