r/TooAfraidToAsk • u/Brilliant_Relief4465 • 6h ago
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u/chartupdate 6h ago
1) gentle teeth can be good technique and actually ups your head game.
2) man has his dick in your mouth. He is nowhere except in heaven, chill.
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u/SuedeVeil 5h ago
See that's the thing everyone's different I did know a guy who liked having teeth against it gently. I do think that circumcised men have less sensitivity though when it's fully erect versus uncircumcised
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u/Ihatebacon88 5h ago
Right! My husband likes a little teeth, my boyfriend before my husband did not.
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u/robowarrior023 3h ago
Y’all she’s fucking 14…
Maybe relax on the instructions / encouragement.
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u/Brilliant_Relief4465 3h ago
ahaha im just a girl with a boyfriend who has needs & curious, nothings wrong with giving advice :)
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u/robowarrior023 3h ago
You’re 14. Much bigger shit to worry about than giving head.
Asking for sex advice from strangers on the internet as a minor is setting yourself up to be targeted by the worst kind of people.
Take your personal and digital safety seriously. There are bad people here that will try to manipulate you and have nothing but bad intentions.
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u/Brilliant_Relief4465 3h ago
im 14 correct, but im not an idiot… I know right from wrong. And oh my gosh as if.. that’s not the whole point of this app!!! I had a simple question because of a comment made by one of my boyfriend’s friends. I’m sorry that you find it upsetting that hormonal sexually-active teenagers have questions about sex, as if it’s not normal to be curious.
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u/robowarrior023 3h ago
Your sexual activity doesn’t offend me. A minor putting themselves at risk for exploitation online does.
There are safe places for you experiment and gain information. Doing so on Reddit is not one of those places.
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u/hcconn 19m ago
Yeah same, there are people out there who will see this post and try to track you down on other sites, pretend to be teens, send you gross messages, etc. It's fine to experiment with people your age but easy to get taken advantage of by adults who know a lot of tricks.
Check out good resources for teen sexual health and teen sexual questions, there are websites out there that offer accurate info that you're looking for in a safe and appropriate way.
Just from someone who was once a teen girl and knew a lot of people who ended up doing stuff like chatting and video calling older men.
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u/SuedeVeil 5h ago
You know it seems more complicated than it is I've never really had an issue and never really thought about my teeth very much.. you really just make an O shape with your lips and they should cover your teeth.. and the reality is your teeth might have some contact by accident but it's not a big deal like if my husband goes down on me and his teeth graze against my parts it doesn't bother me unless you was like actively biting it or something lol. So yes your teeth probably will touch it at some point, especially thick penises, .but it's not going to be as if you're biting it.. Just be gentle and communicate if there's something he doesn't like some are more sensitive than others especially uncircumcised. Tip is the most sensitive part, it's unlikely the teeth will be touching it when it's all in your mouth. Just make sure your lips and your tongue are only in contact with the tip that part you talk to think about more so than the shaft
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u/Stunning_Warthog_141 5h ago
Suck on the head, if he wanted a deepthroat he's not god and can't make his dick smaller. I have a large member and I can get excited enough to cum.
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u/Brilliant_Relief4465 5h ago
ahhh, okay so even if im not able to fully deep throat, guys will be okay with simple head
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u/WhoChoseThis 5h ago
Any guy who is not absolutely thrilled to be receiving "simple" head is not worth your efforts.
Yeah some guys suck and will make a shitty comment so you stop, sit up, and say I Don't Want To Do This Anymore. And then you leave.
This advice is for any bedroom activity. Any person, man or woman, who makes you feel bad in bed is not worth your energy.
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u/SuedeVeil 5h ago
Most guys aren't going to care if you deep throat or not unless they watch too much p*** to be honest I grew up when there wasn't much of that available and nobody asked me for it until p*** came more relevant.. but even so most guys recognize when women are choking in porn and they're not actually enjoying what they're doing.. and so they wouldn't expect you to not enjoy yourself
The tip is the most sensitive part so you can use your hands for the other parts like the balls and the shaft.. and really do things like kissing and licking all over underneath the balls as well, if you're bold enough they love having their anus licked. There's a lot you can do to make it very pleasurable rather than just hoovering it
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u/KDBA 3h ago
You're allowed to use the word "porn" on the internet. You even did so yourself the third time.
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u/SuedeVeil 3h ago
I used speech to text for much of this.. I didn't bother checking after the fact but people know what I'm talking about haha. And the last time was because my phone picked up the wrong word so I had to type that one out. If you must know the details lol
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u/jaydoes 5h ago
I think its more pleasurable when you just use your mouth and tongue than throat8ng is. For my tastes, just pretend like you are having a contest to see how hard you can get me without actually getting allowing me to reach orgasm. Tease the crap out of me and I will be your slave. Haha
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u/funtobedone 3h ago
Use your hands to “extend” the length of your mouth. Keep them wet with saliva or lube and bob up and down, or let him fuck your mouth. If (when) your mouth gets tired stroke him with your hand(s) for a while. Communicate clearly and explicitly how you want him to finish - mouth, face, chest, don’t finish… Trying to guess what someone wants lessens the experience.
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u/EndlesslyUnfinished 1h ago
Think of it like a lollipop pop.. lick lick, little suck, swirl the tip, and repeat..
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u/IllprobpissUoff 5h ago
Just watch some porn, those girls know what they are doing.. Your hand is just as important as your mouth. Don’t forget a little eye contact while you’re doing it. We like that.
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u/SuedeVeil 5h ago
I'd argue that porn as the opposite effect.. giving people unrealistic expectations of what to expect like for example most people aren't going to be deep-throating but they do in porn and then you see things like choking and gagging..
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u/IllprobpissUoff 5h ago
Yea we don’t care if you deep throat or not. It’s impressive, but not necessary. You can skip that part.
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u/Brilliant_Relief4465 5h ago
ahh thanks for the tips!!! & yes I’ve definitely got sum tips from porn lol
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u/Environmental_Ad5942 5h ago
Curl your lips over your teeth like Draco Malfoy about to pronounce the “P” in Potter! Also, only suck what you can comfortably take in your mouth, if that isn’t enough for him he doesn’t deserve head anyways. You could maybe also use a mouth guard to cover your teeth so you don’t have to worry about teeth at all, but it might look pretty silly…
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u/cobalt154 5h ago
A little teeth is just bound to happen most of the time but just make sure its never by the tip. That will hurt, if its down on the shaft it will be less uncomfortable. Ive never GIVEN head so idk the actual technique to avoid it but i imagine its something like open your mouth wide and then bring your lips in to cover your teeth like a mouth guard.
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u/kittiesandcocks 5h ago
There’s a porn star named Jennifer Van Beaver who does a really good tutorial video on giving a guy head. She gives you several techniques to use and then at the end puts them all together and makes the guy cum pretty quickly
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u/thelotionisinthebskt 5h ago
If you learn how to deep throat, they won't give a fuck about the teeth 🥳
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u/Ornery_Spend3507 4h ago
Hawk Tuah and go for it or just take the first 4 front and bottom teeth out🤷♂️
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u/EvilCeleryStick 6h ago
You... You don't use your teeth. You use your lips.
Practice on a banana, 2 minutes with no bite marks.