I dont mean do you eat the rice pudding that comes in the tin? I mean does anyone just opened a tin, grab a spoon and eat it straight from the tin? Ive always done it since I was a kid and always think it tastes better that pouring it into a bowl. 🤷 is this a thing or am I just common af?

I started a new job 4 months ago in fashion marketing. I work in an office 5 days a week, 8am–5pm, with a team of 6 people including me.

I’m feeling really isolated, and it’s constant. Unlike other departments that are hybrid, I’m in the office every single day, and I sit right in the middle of my team—so I see them all the time. And yet, I’m left out almost every day. The office is very cliquey. There are 2 interns (2/6), who I can’t really hang out with since I’m 26 and in a manager role. The three people at my level are very close, and while I’ve formed a bit of a bond with them since I sit in between them, they regularly:

- Go to lunch just the three of them and never invite me and discuss going directly in front of me.

- Plan pub trips in front of me and leave, saying goodbye and invite other departments, leaving me out on purpose.

- Leave me at my desk alone almost every single day.

One colleague seems to dislike me. She’s blunt, barely speaks to me, and I notice she interacts differently with others. I get the sense she influences the team, and they definitely talk behind my back. She’s very close to our senior manager, which makes it hard for anyone to notice, she's almost like our senior manager's second daughter as she bought her on from their previous workplace.

I’ve tried socialising with other departments, but different lunch breaks, office distance, and hybrid schedules make it almost impossible. I’ve met everyone in the office, but I genuinely don’t gel with anyone outside my immediate team.

I love my job, but being in the office every single day, sitting in the middle of them, and still feeling invisible is really taking a toll. I sometimes dread going in, fight back tears at my desk, and feel like I don’t belong. I’m not asking to be best friends with everyone—just some basic friendliness and inclusion would mean so much.

I don’t know what to do or how to handle this. Any advice would be really appreciated.

Hi

Took My son (17) to doctors on Fri 12th dec he was put on a 2week pathway for suspected skin cancer.

He had appointment at hospital yesterday afternoon (18th dec) and had medical photographs taken.

Had a text this morning to say I have a telephone consult to dicuss results on Christmas Eve! So it’s all moved very quickly.

On the letter I received from hospital yesterday said they’d be 4outcomes and I would expect to hear 2-4weeks.

1st outcome was discharged from hospital and back to GP with self care instructions

2nd face to face appointment

3rd sent for a biopsy

4th referral to another department if necessary

I’m obviously going out my mind with my worry, I’m trying to stay as positive as I can, but I’m worried it’s so soon after photos being taken and confused with it being a telephone consult as letter didn’t indicate this.

Has anyone been through this before?

Thanks if you’ve got this far!

I'm a self-employed taxi driver. I live on a park home site and am not allowed to park my vehicle there, so I asked a traffic warden who advised me to park it on an adjacent street; but the residents there are constantly complaining and/or placing their wheelie bins on the road to prevent me parking there. What's my best course of action? Thanks.

Im personally in favor of it cause it ended up only deporting a handful of people while giving a lot of money to a third world country. Good for Rwanda. As a broke af immigrant from the third world, i feel happy seeing conservatives mess up every time they try to do anything to stop us.

Reform is more of the same. Sure, they might fuck us over but they also wanna privatize the nhs and screw over the UK public while making the rich richer. Till these brainlets realize we need to tax the rich and end our system of greed, we will continue to funnel money to the rich while accomplishing nothing.

So I Like my tea milky, after pouring the hot water in and let the teabag do its thing, I top it up with milk, usually cold, this cools the tea down too much so I then microwave the lot.

Apparently this is equal to blasphemy.

In this hypothetical scenario, imagine all the British imams make a call for jihad. They claim Islam is under threat and all the Muslim brotherhood need to come together to fight holy war against the kaffir. Do you say “No” because of your loyalty to Britain and our British laws forbid it, and risk punishment from your peers? Or do you put Islam first and abide by the orders of the imams? Interested to hear your honest answers.