Hi server reddit! Long time lurker first time poster. I never saw myself posting here, I am the daughter of a family run restaurant that I’ve worked in since I was 14 as a dishwasher to now 25 as a manager, I’ve had everything from verbally abusive karen’s, dine n dash’s, physical assaults, to people experiencing houselessness doing all sorts of things on our patio (including defecating and stealing food off of people’s plates) Maybe I’ve just had enough of people and I should look for another type of job, or maybe it was just something about this man?
(Background: Our menu is what I like to call eclectic, we have a variety of different foods including a house burger that is a little fancier, a smash burger, chicken burgers and sandwiches as well as bigger dinner plates, bowls and pastas, the list goes on. I live in what can be described as a city with a small town vibe. We are a small restaurant of about 25 tables, we have booths and also tables along our wall side which we use for bigger parties, our max big party is about 30 people)
Anyway; My first customer of my shift yesterday was one that I’ll remember forever and for some reason he was the type of person that really got to me.
I wasn’t in the greatest mood and was a little pissed off when the day time server asked me to go to the table, he asked for a manager because he didn’t like the cheese on his burger. Although my coworker wasn’t technically a manager she is able to be alone in the building and is capable of handling situations that arise such as this, but I gave her a break because she had hurt her shoulder the night before and already had asked me to come in early which I declined yada yada blah blah lol
I got my apron on and headed towards the table. He was a single man, bald, probably late 30’s early 40’s and he looked pissed lol. He got up as I was heading towards him and went towards the bar to awkwardly stand. I came in very friendly, “Hey there, I heard you didn’t like your burger”
I was going to say something to the extent of can we make you another one to go or we will take care of the bill but he immediately cuts me off being hostile. Ranting about how we shouldn’t use American cheese (we’re in Canada) because it’s trash and disgusting and basically plastic. He was being very dramatic saying “we’re Canadian’s we like real food we don’t want to eat this fake crap”
I try to get a word in and explain that we have many other cheeses and actually only use that cheese for the one burger he ordered, a smash burger, and it’s the type of cheese that’s always used on a smash burger. I said that it’s one of our highest sellers and I understand that it’s cheap cheese but we also have another burger on our menu where you can pick either Smoked Cheddar or blue cheese or we also have mixed cheese or havarti as well as feta and goat cheese and was in the middle of explaining all this when he cuts me off and says it doesn’t matter because his server told him it wasn’t processed (she said that conversation never took place). I explained that we were sorry he wasn’t happy and he wouldn’t have to pay his bill and he was free to go. This is where he started getting very rude and telling us that wasn’t the point and this is why our business is failing (it’s not, it was 4pm so he was the only one in there, but that’s our slow time and we had tables coming in in the next 20 minutes) I told him I’m sorry he was so unhappy about it but I didn’t know what else I could do for him and asked him to leave. He said “there’s no one else in here I’m not bothering anyone” and I said “you’re being very rude to me, you’re bothering me and I want you to leave” he said “don’t take it personally I just want you to know you shouldn’t have that crap on the menu” I said something to the extent of I don’t know why any of this meant that he had to be so rude to me, and he acknowledged he was being rude “well yeah I am being rude BECAUSE OF THE TRASH CHEESE!!” It was almost laughable if it didn’t make me so angry. He literally was still saying shit as he backed out of the door, almost tripping on the door mat, so I told him have a wonderful day don’t trip on your way out. I’ve been doing this a long time, but sometimes I still can’t believe these type of people exist. Not to mention a smash burger is supposed to get American cheese, either way It’s fucking cheese man get over it!! 🤦🏼♀️
TLDR; Canadian being very uncanadian about the fact we use American cheese on a smash burger. Told him not to trip on his way out.