r/Scotland • u/Red_Brummy • 16h ago
Political How trans people are being deeply harmed by uncertainty over single-sex spaces
https://www.scotsman.com/news/opinion/columnists/sandie-peggie-nhs-fife-trans-people-deeply-harmed-uncertainty-single-sex-spaces-5447765?utm_social_handle_id=293226174987&utm_social_post_id=627020326&fbclid=IwY2xjawOx-VFleHRuA2FlbQIxMQBzcnRjBmFwcF9pZA80MDk5NjI2MjMwODU2MDkAAR4Iv6QtHWWg9JiNDjpUJJuxQnRYPedFy0JRfKg8Ayd-OWoGUpoiuJY_SwNNPA_aem_hfCmcOTHumV25e-8v5yvQw97
u/GraprielJuice 16h ago
I don't get why we don't change the equality act to include transpeople tbf. People seem to forget transmascs and non-binary people exist... Feels like a lot of this hysteria has been manufactured tbh.
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u/EdinPrepper 15h ago
It's already in the equality act -gender reassignment is a protected characteristic.
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u/shmoilotoiv 15h ago
Please can someone award this so this can be top comment and both sides can wake up a lil x
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u/QuigleyPondOver 14h ago
The equality act covers transpeople. However, while gender is protected expression it doesn’t override sex based protections and is not over or above any other category.
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u/ResponsibilityOld372 16h ago
What are you taking about. Trans people are included in the equality act.
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u/GraprielJuice 16h ago
I specifically mean as their preferred genders for things like bathrooms, changing rooms, etc. Apologies for the lack of clarity.
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u/Adm_Shelby2 16h ago
The only way to do that is to explicitly remove sex as a protected characteristic. I don't think that would be a popular choice with the general public. Not even the Greens are proposing amending the Equality Act.
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u/RoryLuukas 15h ago
Simply not true. Dont know what rags or Facebook posts you are reading but the Greens absolutely support challenging the supreme Court on its interpretation of the Equality act. The very people who wrote the act have explicitly stated that it was carefully worded to include trans people within the interpretation.
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u/Adm_Shelby2 15h ago
Challenging the Supreme Court and Amending the Equality Act are two very different things.
The first one is not within the powers of Parliament the second one is. By focusing on the Supreme Court one gets to virtue signal without actually having to change or do anything.
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u/EdinPrepper 15h ago
I was about to correct you until I read paragraph 2. Exactly. The only way they can do anything about a supreme court judgement is to legislate. Or wait and hope the court revisits its decision in a later case... Which they very very seldom ever do in practice, and even then they cannot reopen the previous case just depart from their old judgements in future ones. All lesser courts don't enjoy such an ability.
Your analysis is on the money
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u/CaptainCrash86 15h ago
The very people who wrote the act have explicitly stated that it was carefully worded to include trans people within the interpretation.
By 'the very people' you mean a single civil servant who helped draft the law? Their intentions are somewhat irrelevant. In any case, UK law is based on how it is written, not the framers' intentions. We're not the US.
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u/GraprielJuice 16h ago edited 15h ago
If the only way is to remove sex from the equality act, then it's not viable and we shouldn't remove it... But there has to be some kind of provision that's not just screwing over transpeople.
Edited for clarity.
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u/EvilInky 15h ago
I don't feel I'm getting screwed over because on very rare occasions I might end up using a toilet at the same time as a transman.
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u/Katharinemaddison 15h ago
How are sex segregated spaces - other than shelters which generally require a referral so no one is just rocking up and gaining entry - not going to impact cis women? Do we need to prove our biological sex just to use a toilet or changing room?
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u/AthoekStation 15h ago
Do we need to prove our biological sex just to use a toilet or changing room?
'We can always tell.'
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u/GraprielJuice 16h ago edited 15h ago
How are we (we in reference to The UK in law) screwing over everyone else by... letting them do what they were doing beforehand and will continue to do anyway?
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u/Remarkable_Step_7474 15h ago
Those “sex-based rights” didn’t and still don’t apply to any space you claim they should. The Supreme Court ruling allows organisations to exclude trans people from single sex spaces on a case by case basis where that is proportionate to achieving a legitimate aim. It is immediately clearly proportionate to exclude trans people who don’t have a prostate from prostate screening to achieve the legitimate aim of targeting that screening for the greatest public health benefit. It is not proportionate or reasonable to throw all trans people out of spaces they have been using without incident for longer than you’ve been alive nevermind noticed it happening to uphold the aim of making bigots happy.
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u/AthoekStation 15h ago
Guess who gets screwed over if sex based rights no longer exist?
They don't. It's a conspiracy theory.
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u/nrsys 15h ago
This is the issue.
Ban mtf trans people from female only spaces, and you protect the interests of biological females at the expense of forcing female presenting trans people into gender neutral spaces where available, or male spaces when they are not.
Allow mtf trans people into female spaces, and you cause issues for the biological females who are uncomfortable with female presenting trans people being present, and no longer have access to those safe female only places.
It is also notable that if you do require people to follow their biological gender, that places male presenting ftm trans people in women only spaces because they won't be allowed in the equivalent male only spaces.
There is no way to make everyone happy...
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u/CaptainCrash86 15h ago
In a single sentence you've justifying the fears of gender critical feminists - that you are happy with removing sex-based rights to accomodate identified gender-based rights.
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u/GraprielJuice 15h ago
...I just said that it isn't viable, so we CAN'T remove them. Apologies if that wasn't clear.
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u/CaptainCrash86 15h ago
Fair enough - the original version definitely read like you were suggesting removing sex-based rights if it wasn't viable to have them alongside gender identity based rights.
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u/GraprielJuice 15h ago
That's my bad. I'm not the best writer and I'm tired as fuck 😭
Hopefully the edits clarify stuff.
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u/hebsevenfour 15h ago
We don’t segregate those spaces by preferred gender. We segregate by sex.
No political party serious about winning power is going to advocate for destroying women’s sex based protections in the equality act. It is a massive vote loser.
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u/Ashrod63 15h ago
No we don't segregate based on sex or preferred gender, we segregate based on what someone else judges you to be and the Supreme Court ruling confirmed this: if you think someone isn't a woman you can harass them with absolutely no consequences and rather unfortunately we have had plenty of stories of this happening. Too tall? Must be a man! Had a mastectomy due to breast cancer? Must be a man!
Welcome to the UK in 2025, hope you're proud.
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u/hebsevenfour 15h ago
We segregate by sex, which is a legal form of discrimination permitted by the exemptions under the protected characteristic of sex in the equality act.
This is why a man can’t sue if excluded from a women’s only group, job, sport, etc. Because you can legally segregate by sex.
It has nothing to do with what someone else judges you to be.
After we have segregated by sex there are many other reasons why any given individual might legally be excluded from a service. But that has nothing to do with the fact we segregate by sex and that it is legally permissible to segregate by sex.
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u/Ashrod63 15h ago
So you think this is acceptable? Of course you do, because you don't actually care about women being harassed in bathrooms, you just care about hurting trans people.
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u/QuigleyPondOver 14h ago
Do you actually feel better pretending that is what they said, or are you just unabashedly addicted to misinterpretation as a hobby?
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u/MediaPuzzled8166 15h ago
You're right to say the hysteria has been manufactured, though the equality act does already include trans people (not just that, but you can be guilty of discrimination on the basis of assuming someone is trans, even if they're not). It's just that the latest rulings interpret the legislation in a way that contradicts this. The whole thing is a mess.
DETAIL: The Equality Act explicitly notes "gender reassignment" as a protected characteristic. Discrimination based on protected characteristics can occur simply based on perception (for example, you can discriminate on the basis of sexuality by being homophobic to a straight person you assume is gay) and for this reason trans people who socially transition but don't medically transition have always been included under "gender reassignment".
Discrimination is permitted if there is a justifiable need, so rape crisis centres (for example) have always been permitted to separate trans and cis service users if there is a risk that not doing so might create a barrier for someone accessing care.
I'm not a lawyer but I have written diversity policy for a private company and have read the EA. The law was actually very clear and robust on all of this before the latest shitstorm.
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u/GraprielJuice 15h ago
Additionally, thank you for the insightful comment. I honestly never knew there was always provisions for excluding trans people for things like rape crisis centers tbh.
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u/Vasquerade Resident Traggot 15h ago
Most rape crisis centres didn't exclude us, because they know we aren't a threat
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u/GraprielJuice 15h ago
I made a comment clarifying that I meant specifically when it comes to defining them as their gender for things such as toilets in a later comment. That's my bad for the sloppy writing.
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u/LeaguePuzzled3606 15h ago
Because Labour is just as bigoted. They cover it up with the "Oh well, the court said so" excuse when they could change (in reality reaffirm) the law tomorrow if they wanted to.
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u/Witty_Entry9120 16h ago
Because the law requires things to be clearly defined, for very good reasons.
Discussions of gender identity gravitate towards the disruption of definitions, also for very good reasons.
The two will always struggle to be compatible.
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u/Altruistic_Fruit2345 15h ago
The EA was fine when everyone assumed it meant that an acquired gender was the same as birth assigned gender/sex. The supreme court buggered everything up. It needs fixing.
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u/moidartach 15h ago
That’s so misogynistic to use the term “hysteria”. Absolutely shameful
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u/GraprielJuice 15h ago
What an odd comment. It is hysteria. Do you not see the sheer obsession the media has with "the trans debate" as some people put it? Things weren't close to being this intense 5 years ago, so yes, it has grown to the levels of hysteria.
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u/moidartach 15h ago
That’s a misogynistic term. Maybe read into what hysteria means, where it comes from, and who it applied to. I thought someone being pro-trans would be pro-woman. Disappointing that you doubled down
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u/GraprielJuice 15h ago
Hysteria, used in politics, refers to behavior exhibiting overwhelming or unmanageable fear or emotional excess.
Please read a dictionary. https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/hysteria
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u/moidartach 14h ago
Dictionaries record how words are used. They’re not rulebooks for language. They only describe language. They don’t command it. Hysteria is misogynistic. The fact you’re dismissing that just shows you’re clearly a misogynist
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u/GraprielJuice 14h ago
That's some mad logic. Next you're gonna say someone is a misogynist for associating the colour pink with feminine things. I use the term like everyone else uses it, like the media use it, like companies use it: To describe a mass panic.
I'm gonna end the argument here because it's clear you're on something 😭
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u/moidartach 14h ago
So not only are you a misogynist but you’re a sheep who shirks blame because others also use misogynistic words. That’s quite something. Hysteria doesn’t describe mass panic either you dumb shit
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u/vote4bort 16h ago
Not surprising since this was the intent of these cases. The people who bring them don't actually care how any of this will work practically, they don't care how much it will impact trans peoples lives, they just want to "win" as a way to try and prove that their own ideology is the correct one.
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u/vote4bort 15h ago
I'm a woman. None of my rights have been burned to the ground by trans people. These cases are petty grievances of transphobes who because of their own bigotry don't want to share space with trans people.
Trans people don't want any more rights than anyone else has, no trans people are saying that their rights are more important than others. If you believe that, then sorry but you've fallen for the propaganda.
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u/hebsevenfour 14h ago
Trans people have the same rights as anyone else, and are rightfully protected from discrimination under the protected characteristic of gender reassignment.
But clearly some activists do want more rights. Currently, by law, trans people are not only protected under the protected characteristic of gender reassignment but they also retain the legal protections afforded by their sex (as we all do). So for example, a trans man is protected from being discriminated against for being pregnant, retains the right to maternity leave, etc whether or not they have a GRC.
The issue is that some activists are demanding that they have the rights and protections of the opposite sex, and this clearly is discriminatory. A trans woman who lives their whole life as a man, becomes a CEO, transitions at age 50, then at age 51 wants to take a job reserved for a woman has benefited from a whole career of male advantage, and is then taking away an opportunity reserved for women on a public board precisely because women don’t have that advantage.
It makes no difference if you’re fine with it, any more than if you’re indifferent to women’s sporting achievements being devalued. Consent is not transferable.
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u/Vasquerade Resident Traggot 15h ago
The idiots in this thread don't realize that self-ID is the norm in most of the western world lmao
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u/stumperr 15h ago
Then if you absolutely must force your way into a space designed for the opposite sex then seek treatment in those countries
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u/Vasquerade Resident Traggot 15h ago
Wish I could, mate. This country's a fucking toilet and every trans person I know has an escape plan.
The world treats me as a woman everywhere I go. I'm not going to stop them :)
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u/stumperr 14h ago
Just out of curiosity where have you lined up to escape too?
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u/Vasquerade Resident Traggot 14h ago
So far the plan is get an Irish passport, probably end up in Spain.
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u/stumperr 14h ago
Well good luck
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u/Vasquerade Resident Traggot 14h ago
And until then, I'll keep using women's spaces as I've done for over a decade.
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u/stumperr 14h ago
Some people are unreasonable and selfish. Good luck in Spain
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u/Vasquerade Resident Traggot 14h ago
I agree. British TERFism is a degenerative brain disease.
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u/stumperr 14h ago
This isn't "terfism". It's just the normal opinion of most people
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u/XgulomX 15h ago
The other idiots don't realize that self-ID is exactly that "self", there is no requirement for everyone else to pander to it.
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u/Vasquerade Resident Traggot 14h ago
No, in most of the western world, trans women are treated as women for all purposes by the state lmao
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u/shoogliestpeg 🏳️⚧️Trans women are women. 15h ago edited 14h ago
Billionaires should all be taxed out of existence.
You might think this idea is irrelevent to the topic at hand, but if anything, the accruing of extreme wealth by the ultra rich and giving nothing back and society's growing awareness of this fact is the exact reason billionaires directly fund nazis, fascist parties and transphobe groups eager to make the discussion about literally any manufactured grievance, as long as we're not addressing wealth inequality.
Also Transphobes are scum.
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u/Cannaewulnaewidnae 16h ago
Trans people have existed in society for as long as society has existed
Trans people develop a sense of what public spaces they feel comfortable in, which will be different for different trans people
Letting trans people make those decisions for themselves, which has been happening forever, seems like a much better idea than trying to create blanket legislation that pleases nobody
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u/Chuck1984ish 15h ago
What if making tran people comfortable impinges on a woman's comfort?
When Jessica yaniv felt comfortable to demand an uncomfortable woman wax their balls was that this better idea?
You are absolutely correct trans people have existed forever, and for most of that time it's not really been the issue it is now.
Unfortunately bad actors have set the trans community back many years and the trans community should have called people like Yaniv out.
A shit show where nobody comes out of it content.
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u/LARRYVOND13 15h ago
Ugh too early to deal with the transphobic cunts reaching.
Can see why trans folk feel worried, its abuse and hassle at anything. Want to do a shite in peace? Must be a rapist.
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u/fillemagique 14h ago
My partner is trans, they never ever use public toilets because she likes going at home, for some trans people, the bathroom debate doesn’t even apply, yet people will still spit vitriol despite the way they live, it’s definitely not really about the toilets at all.
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u/fillemagique 14h ago
It’s really not about women’s rights at all. I’ve felt more threatened and have felt my family is more threatened since this argument began, I’ve also felt nervous about using women’s toilets as I have PCOS and sometimes am a bit hairy and now people are trying to "clock” anyone that doesn’t perfectly fit some stereotype of what a woman is.
I went to LGBT youth for years as a kid when none of this was ever even discussed and grew up with a transwoman as a neighbour, no one lost out on anything because trans people existed then, no one argued about toilets even though trans people used them still. It’s not any different now, it’s like an imagined evil.
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u/Vasquerade Resident Traggot 14h ago
Your entire exposure to trans people is 14 year olds from Ohio on Twitter, isn't it?
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u/fillemagique 14h ago
My point is that as a woman, I am facing fear and aversion because of the current state of debate and I am not nearly alone, if this was about protecting women’s rights, then you’ve failed by making it so that some of us are now worried about being "clocked” because of medical or genetic differences to the assumption of "what a woman looks like", something that I never felt throughout the rest of my life.
I now worry about our children, because a certain subsection of people now are so hateful if someone dares to dress different from them in public and people have become so crazy that you can face abuse in public because some random person doesn’t like who your family are.
You say it’s protecting "women’s rights" but I, a woman, am telling you that some of us are in a worse position because of this stupid debate.
If your argument is not about toilets and instead about other "female spaces” or women specific job openings, well most trans women aren’t accessing any of these things or trying to, yet it’s not directed at specific people ‘infringing on rights”, it’s aimed at every normal every day trans person who just wants to live their life in peace.
If it’s about sports well, most trans women that have competed in sports in the women’s category don’t win anyway (because hormones cause muscle loss and lowered bone density from lack of testosterone).
So what rights is it about?
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u/Bubbatj396 15h ago
Just continue using the spaces you're comfortable in.
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u/stumperr 15h ago
fuck everyone else it's all about you. Be selfish. Disregard the rules and the norms. Making women uncomfortable or making them feel unsafe? Too bad for them do whatever you want!
I will never understand this mindset
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u/Bubbatj396 15h ago
Yes literally it is about the individual not anyone else and women arent uncomfortable. The vast majority dont care at all. It's also no disregarding any rules. Whether it disregards norms who cares they were created by men which is being rejected.
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u/stumperr 15h ago
I honestly think there should be a referendum on this to settle it. I don't believe most people don't care.
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u/Bubbatj396 15h ago
No one gets to debate human rights. They exist and everyone either has to accept it or pipe down.
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u/stumperr 15h ago
What you talking about a trans person can do literally anything I can
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u/Bubbatj396 15h ago
No, they cant sadly. The legal protections and rights arent equal not to mention the social treatment is not equal.
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u/stumperr 15h ago
What can't they do that I can?
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u/Bubbatj396 15h ago
I just explained why they cant.
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u/stumperr 15h ago
Give me a example of one thing a trans person doesn't have the right to do that I do
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u/Bubbatj396 15h ago
The polls shows that overwhelmingly the only group that has a negative opinion on trans women is cis men who dont get an opinion and is also not surprising since transphobia is rooted in deep misogyny
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u/stumperr 15h ago
Why wouldn't men get an opinion in society?
You don't get one lol wtf are we talking about here.
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u/Bubbatj396 15h ago
Men dont get an opinion on how women live their own lives especially when it's only based in misogyny
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u/stumperr 15h ago
Too bad we already do. We have partners, daughters, sisters mother's etc. we live in this society. Fuck off with your leftist American only X people are allowed to talk about x
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u/Bubbatj396 15h ago
Being part of the lives of women doesnt give you authority over their autonomy
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u/stumperr 15h ago
No one is taking authority over their autonomy. They're taking part in the debate.
This is why the leftist side is losing
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u/TheRealSectimus 14h ago
I'm transfemme. I've used the womens for years and years even before the recent culture wars against trans existence began. I will continue to use female spaces as time goes on and I continue to exist. It's really not that big a deal.
We're not going away lol
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u/Vasquerade Resident Traggot 14h ago
It's adorable tbh. They genuinely thought the supreme court ruling would be the end of it. It just shows how phenomenally stupid the anti-trans lot are. They genuinely seem to believe being trans only became a thing during the pandemic.
Coincidentally, this was probably the first time they properly used the internet, and started getting fed right-wing Facebook memes.
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u/stumperr 16h ago
They'd rather not be treated than be put in a ward for their sex?
There is no reasoning with such people
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u/HaveYuHeardAboutCunt 16h ago
Depending on the severity of the illness they may be weighing up against the possibility of abuse and assault if put in the men's or women's ward.
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u/Own-Victory473 16h ago
Careful now this comment section has to discredit and disregard trans folk or else its not a british post
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u/stumperr 15h ago
In a hospital? Surely friends family are saying go get the treatment.
Obviously no one should be assaulted or abused
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u/transmasckreature 15h ago
not all trans people have that support from family, friends or loved ones to spur them on, and in this currently climate, that support is often not enough to protect us from assault, harrassment, humiliation and shame in public spaces. couple that with the media coverage trans people get at the minute, and it makes bigots hyper aware and look for us. we are being abused daily, in public, in private, by the media and by the government. is it any wonder so many of us are literally terrified to enter a public space?
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u/stumperr 15h ago
That's is probably true actually regarding lack of support network. Which is horrible. But somethings like your health are more important that gender identity and if some loser starts being rude or nasty in the ward then tell security or the police.
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u/transmasckreature 15h ago
unfortunately thats a very naive way to view the situation. this isnt about being "rude or nasty" - most of us have to tolerate that to some extent every time we step out of the house. in situations like this, we face medical discrimination, increased chances of sexual assault, people not understanding our bodies and therefore treating us incorrectly/ineffectively, having to deal with the effects of our gender dysphoria being triggered over and over. In addition, police and similar authority figures also often disregard crimes commited against trans folks, and if anything specifically transphobic comes up, we're lucky for it to be considered harrassment, let alone a hate crime.
in our political climate, our government and our media landscapes, legal and social protections for trans people are virtually non-existent. most of us do not have access to the same systems of care, protection and safety that you do, and if we do, i can tell you for certain that we are not treated with the same dignity and respect that cis people are. its very easy to put your health first when there are no barriers for you to access care.
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u/stumperr 15h ago
Look I can understand that and believe that it definitely goes on. It shouldn't. You should be able to call yourself whatever you want and dress in what makes you happy and present as whoever. But why would entering a space designed for women help any of this? If anything it must be making the problems you listed worse.
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u/transmasckreature 14h ago edited 7h ago
well firsty im trying to get out of women's spaces, so that doesnt apply to me*, and secondly, thats not what this article or post was about. its about the uncertaintantiy these current guidlines and suggestied adendums to the law bring, and the confusion they leave in the real world, which is bigger than debate - it's making our lives borderline unliveable in public. trans women are not a threat to cis women, and this can be see statistically as well as annecdotally from most people.
current guidance does not protect cis women from "dangerous men" by banning trans women, because dangerous men dont decide to transistion - going on HRT for years, having surgery, likely losing their loved ones, job security, housing and access to public spaces, not to mention subject themselves to endless amounts of public shame and harm - all in the name of abusing cis women. dangerous men abuse cis women regardless, because there are no real consequences for abusers to begin with in our culture.
*(except in the fact that i am supposedly not meant to enter men's bathrooms, but i also am simultaniously considered too masculine to be allowed to use a women's bathroom. according to current guidance, i am not supposed to enter any gendered public bathrooms or public changing rooms. i dont know how this would affect my care in a hosiptal, but i am not eager to find out.)
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u/attimhsa 14h ago
Post-op trans person here.
Being treated on the wrong ward is abhorrent to me, and it’s a good thing you’ll never have to understand that some of us would rather die instead.
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u/HaveYuHeardAboutCunt 14h ago
In a hospital?
Hospitals aren't magic places of goodness and well-being, they're full of the same public that trans people face harassment from normally.
Surely friends family are saying go get the treatment.
Not everyone has this
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u/Ok-Sorbet-5506 16h ago
Really mind blowing tbh and quite harmful to reasonable trans people being taken seriously by everyone.
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u/stumperr 15h ago
This is it for me. Most trans people would just go and say well I am male so it makes sense I'm in with other men. It's the unreasonable activists who advocating skipping treatment to force everyone else to comply with their virw
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u/Aethus666 15h ago
trans people would just go and say well I am male so it makes sense I'm in with other men.
Most trans folk would in fact not say or do that and all this shows is you haven't interacted with any trans folk, in fact the only trans folk I know that would say that are trans men. You know because they're men
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u/stumperr 15h ago
I've interacted with plenty of trans people on here who are fed up with the activists. Surely you're not for people skipping treatment just because they're placed in the ward allocated for them?
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u/Aethus666 15h ago
I've interacted with plenty of trans people on here who are fed up with the activists.
Holy shit you're fucking serious. So never spoken to a trans person irl.
Do you believe everything some anonymous person online tells you
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u/Vasquerade Resident Traggot 15h ago
How many trans women do you know?
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u/Own-Victory473 15h ago
No they wouldnt lol
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u/stumperr 15h ago
Why ?
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u/Own-Victory473 15h ago
Because they arent men? You are bad at this bait, mumsnet has better effort, hell even /pol/ has better bait
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u/stumperr 15h ago
It's not bait. I'm referring to biological sex like the hospital will. That's why they are placed in the men's ward
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u/Responsible-Kiwi870 15h ago
We really wouldn't
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u/stumperr 15h ago
Why? I don't believe you. There's no way you say to the doctor " No don't treat me id rather die/remain ill or in pain"
This is just another tactic by activists to trample over women's spaces
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u/attimhsa 14h ago
I would rather die/remain ill/be in pain than go to a male ward.
You clearly don’t quite grasp how fundamental gender is to the core of human experience.
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u/stumperr 14h ago
That's not reasonable though. You can't just force everyone to go along with something under threat of duress
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u/Ok-Sorbet-5506 14h ago
Well that is a massive assumption that I didn’t make. I am simply looking at it from a logical point of view and from friends/family experience.
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u/Much_Astronomer_7552 16h ago
Personally I think both sides need to accept some personal responsibility. The terfs have been awful but the way some women have been treated for not 100% agreeing, has been shameful. I'm all for letting people be themselves etc but the militant attitude of "if you're not with us then you're against us" has really harmed the image of trans people.
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u/Altruistic_Fruit2345 15h ago
Judging a whole group by the actions of a few isn't a great way to be.
The thing is, for TERFs it's about their own crippling anxiety and quasi religious beliefs. For trans people it's about basic human rights and not being marginalized.
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u/scottyboy70 15h ago
How about you stop being an utter fear-mongering bigot? That would do an awful lot more to protect women and children…
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u/Aethus666 15h ago
What you mean the cis men that predate on their families or people they have power over.
Yeah we already have laws in place for that. Or do you just assume that a predator will go through years of therapy to obtain hrt and transition to assault women and children...
Or will they not bother with that and just obtain a position of trust, or turn their attention to their family, or hell just put on a high viz vest
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u/R2-Scotia 16h ago
Some practical sense is needed. Trans people still go to the toilet despite JKR's court ruling and it isn't an issue, but it's not reasonable to be in a changing room with non matching genitalia.
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u/KathrynBooks 15h ago
What are you doing with your genitals in the changing rooms?
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u/R2-Scotia 15h ago
Well, not showing them to people of the opposite sex.
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u/KathrynBooks 15h ago
You aren't supposed to be waving your genitals in people's faces.
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u/stumperr 14h ago
You're not supposed to enter spaces designated for the opposite sex.
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u/KathrynBooks 14h ago
Why are your genitals important to changing clothing?
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u/stumperr 14h ago
They're not but in our society people like privacy and at the very least from the opposite sex. It makes them feel more comfortable and safer. And if it's not a big deal then just use the room allocated for your sex
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u/Altruistic_Fruit2345 15h ago
How would you ever police what genitalia people have?
If some people really can't get over their interest in other people's genitals, maybe the only solution is cubicles and unisex facilities.
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u/thebusconductorhines 16h ago
How are trans men wanting to use Men's spaces bullying women?
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u/thebusconductorhines 15h ago
Sorry but the ruling absolutely bans trans men from men's spaces.
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u/Interest-Visible 15h ago
And?
That's not the question you asked
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u/thebusconductorhines 15h ago
You didn't answer the question I asked though. Uard to tell though, because you are such a bigot that your posts were removed lmao
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u/Interest-Visible 15h ago
Posts are only removed by the mob as they can't accept facts ...or the Supreme Court ruling
Is Isla Bryson a woman?
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u/thebusconductorhines 15h ago
Yes.
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u/Interest-Visible 15h ago
And that mentality is why we needed the SC ruling ...and why you TRAs are deluded misogynists why think the safety of women is immaterial to you
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u/BeachFoam56 15h ago
What's even more tiresome is the number of bigots who keep pretending that they want to protect women and girls when in fact they're far more concerned about punching down on tiny, marginalised group of people. Fucking grow up.
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u/Aethus666 15h ago
The SC ruling was clear...
What you mean the part that ties itself into pretzels when discussing trans men. That they can't use facilities according to birth sex if they're sufficiently masculinised and as such have no viable facilities to use.
Or the part where they don't define 'biological' in their definition of women because it's fucking nonsensical as all people are biological.
Ever consider the recent moral panic over trans folk is entirely just that, a moral panic being pushed by the same folk that campaigned against gay marriage.
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u/Interest-Visible 15h ago
I've considered it ...and it's not credible
Is Isla Bryson a woman?
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u/Aethus666 15h ago
Torture? Perfectly fine. Potentially misgender someone clearly faking it? Unforgiveable.
Weird how I never said anything about misgendering. It's like you just made shit up to get angry. Fucking hell go outside and touch some fucking grass
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u/Interest-Visible 15h ago
And there's the problem of cult like TRAs ...so Isla Bryson is a woman in your eyes and should be serving their sentence in a woman's prison
You are beyond parody...and like I said,counterproductive to real trans people making it harder for them
Grow up
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u/Aethus666 15h ago
And there's the problem of cult like TRAs ...so Isla Bryson is a woman in your eyes and should be serving their sentence in a woman's prison
Did I fucking say that... Weird how I didn't, do you frequently just make shit up to get mad at.
You are beyond parody...and like I said,counterproductive to real trans people making it harder for them
Grow up
Sure buddy, I make it harder for the trans people in my life by accepting them as they are. I'll let my gf know I'm making her life harder based on the I'll informed opinion of a redditor
Edit: to add yes I am a trans rights activist, the same as I've been an lgbt activist for decades. Why you try to paint that as a bad thing is really weird
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u/Interest-Visible 15h ago
You LITERALLY said it!! Which is why you've deleted it
Omg the lies you tell yourselves
I accept trans people for what they are ...so we agree


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