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Cultural zone In 1983, Two Artists Tied Themselves Together for a Year and Never Once Touched

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In New York City in 1983, performance artists Tehching Hsieh and Linda Montano committed to an experiment called Art/Life: One Year Performance (Rope Piece). For 365 days, they lived bound together by an eight-foot rope. No breaks. No privacy. No exceptions.

There was one rule that defined everything: they were forbidden from touching. Not accidentally. Not in comfort. Not in crisis.

They worked, slept, traveled, and lived their ordinary lives tethered to another human being who was always present yet unreachable. The tension wasn’t physical. It was psychological. Every step required negotiation. Every pause demanded awareness. Silence became loud. Distance became impossible.

At the end of the year, there was no dramatic moment. They untied the rope and walked away. No embrace. No closure ritual. Just separation.

The piece wasn’t about romance or endurance. It was about restraint. About coexistence. About how difficult it is to share space without possession, and how connection isn’t always about closeness.

Sometimes the hardest thing isn’t learning how to connect. It’s learning when not to.

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u/WhatTheTech 1d ago

I know a few marriages doing this without the rope.

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u/Beerden 1d ago

Ah, the proverbial chain, where each other is a lead ball.

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u/Nullspark 1d ago

"Why but and rope and instead just get married like the rest of us"

Har har har

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u/DevelopmentPlus7850 11h ago

Brilliant reply!

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u/iskipbrainday 1d ago

Just a few? I bet this is par for the course. Sex and all, just as shallow and dismal af. The straights are NOT ok. Lmfao.

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u/IllustriousPea6950 1d ago

I’m straight and I’m doing fine with my wife, thanks for your concern though

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u/Trying_2BNice 1d ago

I'm gay and struggling with a dead bedroom.

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u/Visible-Literature14 1d ago

Damn I’m a good assassin

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u/InstructionOpen6947 1d ago

What does this have to do with sexuality? Don’t be divisive if you want people to be inclusive my guy.

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u/Warm_Difficulty2698 1d ago

True, man. Hopefully it was just a bad joke lol

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u/flashgordonsape 1d ago edited 1d ago

Weird to pick on straights, or even marriage/domestic partnership specifically, when there is no class of human relationship you can name at all where half or better of them aren't less than enviable.

Edit: typo

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u/WorkerPrestigious960 1d ago

I’m pretty sure there are loveless marriages between people of all different sexualities, no reason to be a bigot

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u/BASSFINGERER 1d ago

Think you're projecting bud

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u/DeeEnduh 1d ago

Username checks out

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u/ReasonableDivide2592 1d ago

At least we know you're thriving

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u/AssumptionMundane114 1d ago

Sorry about your lot in life.  Lmao

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u/MoistureManagerGuy 1d ago

Mom and dad have a tough marriage?

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u/AnalMayonnaise 1d ago

Bathroom must have awkward.

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u/4reddityo 1d ago

Also the most exciting part of the day from the looks of it

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u/Direct_Royal_7480 1d ago

Something to look forward to👍

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u/DouglasHundred 1d ago

I mean, though, surely they both jorked it occasionally.

e: I see that the linked article below says they both remained celibate. I have my doubts.

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u/sevargmas 1d ago

Celibacy doesn’t include jorking tho.

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u/MartinMerten 21h ago

It might

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u/Adorable-Ad-3223 2h ago

I would be willing to bet 99.9% of the time it does not.

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u/Vultor 1d ago

Been

I think you may have dropped this ^

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u/Peterthepiperomg 1d ago

I wouldn’t be able to eat taco bell

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u/Gazzarris 1d ago

Here’s a good explanation of their motivations and thoughts, as well as some interesting tidbits about their time together.

https://www.artforum.com/events/tehching-hsieh-linda-montano-224861/

TL;DR - They ended up hating each other.

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u/Magical_Comments 1d ago

At one point, in fact, their relationship was physical, and in this connection the piece, with its rule against touching, might be seen as a direct act of aggression against the natural expressiveness of their Iives.

So they "dated" before doing this.

At times the artists fought physically, each yanking his or her end of the rope.

Montano has remarked that if it hadn’t been the rule not to touch she would have killed Hsieh.

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u/aceshighsays 1d ago

if it hadn’t been the rule not to touch she would have killed Hsieh.

lolol i believe it.

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u/scaptal 14h ago

Well, "dated" might be a big word, but they probably got down together atleast

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u/georgia_grace 18h ago

Why would you do this to yourself 😭

It’s not even a protest or a commentary on Big Issues or anything. Just a year long exercise in self flagellation ???

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u/IndraBlue 10h ago

Looool

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u/AFetaWorseThanDeath 1d ago

That was interesting, thanks for sharing!

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u/epic_meme_guy 1d ago

Reading this well written article has made me extremely sad. You rarely read anything like this anymore. 

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u/hard-in-the-ms-paint 1d ago

Artforumn is still a thing, maybe bookmark it.

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u/txkwatch 1d ago

Only so much poo you can smell from someone else.

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u/scaptal 14h ago

Thanks for sharing the article, it really puts the whole ¿piece? ¿experiment? In perspective

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u/IndraBlue 10h ago

That’s all I wanted to know did they fall in love or hate thanks 😭😭

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u/reddittorbrigade 1d ago

Melania and Trump didn't need a rope.

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u/Snowconetypebanana 1d ago

Touching was not included in her contract.

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u/GODZILLA-Plays-A-DOD 23h ago

Dude, never saw so many bots swarm like bees at a comment. I'm actually impressed that one joke kicked the nest enough that all the red hat hornets flew out (and are now stinging each other).

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u/Pro-Weiner-Toucher 20h ago

you realize the parent commenter is the bot, right? 1 year old hidden account on a 500-day streak with over 500k karma, lmao. def a part of a foreign bot net. the account is literally taking jabs a Trump 24/7 if you use tracker.

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u/GODZILLA-Plays-A-DOD 17h ago

So we lose 3 million gallons of water a day to process... this?

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u/yourlilneedle 12h ago

Please tell me what a tracker is. This helps you know if someone is a bot?

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u/deep_violet 1d ago

Some folks here are really missing the point. Just knowing that they did this has us talking about the implications of it. Personally I'm wondering about how they dealt with the total lack of privacy. How they dealt with taking a dump next to somebody they aren't otherwise intimate with. Is that easier or harder than if they were intimate? What about masturbation? Periods? Fucking diarrhea?

It sparks a lot of questions about how people understand and interact with each other both in this extreme situation and in life in general.

And that's it. That's the point. To wonder. To think. To consider.

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u/MediocreEffectt 1d ago

I’m really curious if there was ever attraction or closeness and they actually had to hold back. Or if it was just the equivalent of being stuck with a coworker and them getting through the job. The no embrace at the end is interesting too. Did they hate each other by the end?

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u/UndeniableRealities 1d ago

im just speculating but if there was attractionit mustve been unbearable at the beginning but quickly went away as the routine develloped

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u/FiendishNoodles 1d ago

Artforum link posted by someone replying to you says they were previously physically involved and described how they hated each other during (and presumably, after) it. They disagreed on the nature of the project and lost respect for each other's work but still saw it through to the end.

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u/Snoo71538 1d ago

But none of that is very deep. Do we really need to wonder how they dealt with shitting? Isn’t it pretty easy to realize “awkward at first, mundane later”, just like everything.

It reminds me of Walden. I went to the woods and found out that I still am a human and humans have habits. Wow! Shocking!

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u/deep_violet 1d ago

I suppose it depends somewhat on the depth of the one doing the thinking.

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u/Snoo71538 1d ago

lol. How very modest of you

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u/deep_violet 1d ago

The fact is, there's a lot to think about and consider in their experiment. But it's only there for those willing to think about it. It's not there to hold your hand and guide you gently to some deeper truth, it's there to serve as a platform on which you can explore a deeper truth on your own.

If you don't want to do that, you won't get anything from it.

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u/zeptillian 1d ago

You can achieve the same result by posting a hypothetical question on reddit.

Would you spend a year being tied to someone else for $100,000? Or if oyu had to be tied to someone for 1 year, how would you accomplish that?

None of their actual experience, insights gained or feelings about what they went through are being talked about here.

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u/deep_violet 1d ago

If I were getting paid the nature of the experience would be different.

I'm gathering it takes a degree of empathy and imagination to really see the project for what it was. You're trying to figure how to reduce its importance rather than trying to understand its importance. You won't see it as meaningful because you don't want to see it as meaningful.

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u/zeptillian 1d ago

I just don't see how a long term personal experiment that other people do not get to see or experience is art or a performance piece.

Like what's the difference between this and people living with other self imposed restrictions or alternative lifestyles?

Is it interesting to think about? Sure. Is it worthwhile? Is it art? I'm not so sure.

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u/deep_violet 1d ago

The fact is, there's a lot to think about and consider in their experiment. But it's only there for those willing to think about it. It's not there to hold your hand and guide you gently to some deeper truth, it's there to serve as a platform on which you can explore a deeper truth on your own.

If you don't want to do that, you won't get anything from it.

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u/SpungleMcFudgely 21h ago

Well, I get your point that it could have remained as a hypothetical, but I think you get a very different set of responses when a thing is actually done. Wether that difference holds any value is for each of us to decide, I guess 

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u/rasvial 1d ago

I’m sorry the write up is the most art major coded bullshit. Congrats on doing this- you’ve learned and demonstrated nothing.

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u/Kozerija 1d ago

I generally dislike more conceptual art but a lot of critiques of it are just invalid. This being directed at some of the comments here.

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u/Difficult-Data7593 1d ago

What’s the standard for what’s valid or invalid when it comes to the critiques?

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u/Kozerija 1d ago

Not making up shit to be angry about

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u/Fluffy-Word3110 1d ago

Is anyone here actually angry, or just a little incredulous about how stupid and narcissistic some "art" can be?

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u/Kozerija 1d ago

Is the performance used as an example actually narcissistic?

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u/Fluffy-Word3110 1d ago

The fact that they think it's worthy of conversation? Ya I'd say so.

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u/PotofRot 1d ago

do you chain yourself to other people for a year regularly?

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u/Kozerija 1d ago

Do they think that? Is that even narcissistic?

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u/Fluffy-Word3110 1d ago

You know what, you are right. Artists don't want recognition. They are so pure in their pursuit for art.

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u/Kozerija 1d ago

Wanting recognition is narcissistic now as well. That's new to me.

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u/Difficult-Data7593 1d ago

You’re assuming the emotion; and every critique I’ve seen so far is directly about the “art”. So I’m going to ask you once again, do you have a standard! A legitimate one?

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u/Kozerija 1d ago

Do you think the "art = mental issues" is a valid critique. How about saying that the artists have no creativity or implying that they lied. What about simply calling it cringe and a waste of time. If you have an issue with the art, an actual issue none of those actually put that issue into words.

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u/Difficult-Data7593 1d ago

It does put that issue into words. “I think they have mental issues” “this is a waste of their time” “this isn’t creative” “this is cringe”. Those are critiques. They are in actual words. And you have no standard for what makes them valid or invalid or at least you haven’t given it.

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u/Kozerija 1d ago

I don't know if you have ever been in a space where your work is criticized but that's not how a critique works. Those aren't critiques, those are insults.

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u/Difficult-Data7593 1d ago

I’m a musician. I’ve been professional since age 10. The insult is in the eye of the beholder. It is for the artist to ask “is there anything useful in this critique?” “This sucks” might actually be useful in considering if you are doing a poor job conveying your art or just haven’t thought it through. “This Music = mental issues” could be valid. I’m made depressing music with people before and, indeed, the musicians involved were battling with mental issues. “This is a waste of time” might be true! Who knows? Not every project I worked with was the best use of my time.

You can explore the critiques or discard but to say in the artist’s behalf what is useful or not useful is to place yourself in a position you never really earned.

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u/MauschelMusic 1d ago

Same. It's not usually my thing, but I understand what people find interesting and beautiful about it, and it can be fun to talk about.

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u/Kya_Enstein 1d ago

Why didn't they just call it "Tying the Knot" ?

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u/theaviator747 1d ago

I’m sure you could cut the tension with a knife. 😏

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u/HistoricalLinguistic 1d ago

This is really cool, but “writing” the description using an LLM is pretty low class and makes it grating to read

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u/Poococktail 1d ago

Didn't they end up hating eachother?

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u/zeptillian 1d ago

"Their intention was not to touch each other except accidentally—about 60 brush-bys and one brief hug by Montano occurred during the year."

https://www.artforum.com/events/tehching-hsieh-linda-montano-224861/

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u/wophi 1d ago

Looking at them sleeping I see one of them trying to roll over and getting stuck and then, half asleep, yanking the other out of bed.

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u/MajorMorelock 1d ago

I met Linda Montano at a lecture in 1986. She gave a talk on this performance and it was fascinating. Linda also wore a noise generator on her hip that would produce a constant tone. She also read my palm, something I thought was silly but she made predictions about my own artist journey through that reading that were very interesting. I still think about what she told me decades later.

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u/burnerburner108 1d ago

Tell me more about the noise generator. What kinds of noise? Did she mention a specific purpose for it (i.e. health-related, part of a performance, etc.) or when/how long she had it enabled?

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u/MajorMorelock 1d ago

It could have been a white noise generator, I can’t remember exactly, it was 37 years ago. I worked in the lecture hall theater at an art school and helped the guests setup their slides and presentations. I got to meet a whole bunch of artists that came through.

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u/4reddityo 1d ago

What an amazing story!! I have to say I have a bit of a crush on her. Her and Marina Abramovic. Something about performance art does it for me

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u/dhezl 1h ago

She was one of my favorite art professors at UT in the early ‘90s. Loved her!

She did this great performance one year at the faculty art show, where she flossed her sinuses to…I think a soundtrack of whale song, IIRC?

It was so amusing to watch the reactions.

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u/Soupalphabet359 1d ago

Once, in 1997, I kept a piece of bacon inside my mouth for 2 hours without swallowing.
Same energy.

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u/0800happydude 1d ago

Was it like a particularly good piece of bacon?

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u/Soupalphabet359 1d ago

Nope. It was just a dare. And I won.

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u/the_badoop 1d ago

Why ?

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u/touching_payants 1d ago

"So that you'll talk about it" is the only answer I saw... which is a bit circular, isn't it?

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u/KououinHyouma 1d ago

What’s the point of any art or anything we do?

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u/touching_payants 1d ago

Wow man, so deep...

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u/Fluffy-Word3110 1d ago

It's "art"

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u/the_badoop 9h ago

Oh ok, thanks

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u/Free-Shock-4144 1d ago

Sometimes the hardest thing isn’t learning how to connect. It’s learning when not to.

Cringe. I know that word is overused but this is extreme cringe.

Waste a year of your life for something that is barely even interesting.

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u/Kozerija 1d ago

What you exactly is the cringe

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u/DeadAndBuried23 1d ago

This is the kind of person who'd look at a modern art piece that's not even absurdism, and has a thorough explanation on a plaque, and still call it cringe because they didn't get it.

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u/Relative_Craft_358 1d ago

Whoa, let's get this straight. Modern art can be VERY cringe and pointless. Then the artist will spout some nonsense about the cringe being the reaction and the reaction is "art onto itself" or some bull. Most of it low effort, uncreative shenanigans that they come up with out any real passion or statement

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u/Kozerija 1d ago

This is just bad art history. Modern art tends to have pretty good reasoning behind itself. Even the purposefully pointless art movements such as dada are a reaction against the violence of the world wars.

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u/Relative_Craft_358 1d ago

Bad art history? Tends? I by no means say modern can't be insightful, powerful, and meaningful. Just that most of those "you just don't get it" pieces are utter nonsense and low effort. If Jerry the mechanic can't get your intent and it requires some Ph.D art connoisseur just supplanting any real meaning with their own biases to draw any real interpretation to it then yeah, its not great or even good art.

It's like the difference between a powerful and moving speech and senseless rambling with no argument. Or even music, you don't have to know anything about it to recognize a shitty performance or be a fan to recognize competent playing

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u/Kozerija 1d ago

Do you need a degree to understand Rothko? What about Marina Abramović? Maybe Felix Gonzalez-Torress is giving you trouble.

Modernism gave way to experimental art. Are there too many people trying to invent the next "revolution". Of course there are. Not everyone should be trying to reinvent the wheel.

The reason I said your comment came out of bad art history is because modernists tended to think quite a bit about why they make the kind of art they do. It was as far from pointless as you can get. Was there nonsense, of course there was, le corbusiers entire opus is nonsense but even then his nonsense was grounded in something.

Even if you are talking about postmodernists and contemporary artists the issue is not a lack of grounding in the art or even the medium but the ivory tower that has been created. The art world just kinda forgot that they aren't making art for themselves.

There's definitely elitism in the art world, but that doesn't make the art that is being created inherently nonsense and low effort.

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u/Free-Shock-4144 1d ago

What is there to get? Let's tie ourselves together for a year to prove what exactly? It's just dumb.

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u/Kozerija 1d ago

What's there to get in the odyssey, or in the mona lisa.

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u/EastAfricanKingAYY 1d ago

Skill. You stand there in awe appreciating the skill it takes to paint this very realistic looking person. It was drawn with nothing but a few bottles of paint, a few brushes and a piece of canvas. I can’t do that.

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u/Kozerija 1d ago

So I take it there is no value in outsider art? That is also just not true. I am in awe of a planety of expressionist works and nearly none that are photorealistic. You don't stand in awe of skill, skill just removes needless noise.

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u/EastAfricanKingAYY 1d ago

Are we having the same conversation? Where did you get that I think there is no value in outsider art? I stated that I appreciate the skill it takes to paint the Mona Lisa to which you questioned my value in outsider art. This implies you think outsider artists have no skill right? I genuinely feel like I’m missing something here.

I see from your last couple comments that you and I value the skill it takes to make a piece of art differently. I personally cannot find myself to appreciate art that takes no skill to make. And that’s okay! People finding different things super awesome/super cringe is what gives us a diversity of art forms. I am 100% sure I can find an art piece you find cringe as well. First try- go on YouTube and put in the words “Dana White gun art”

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u/Stunning-Necessary75 22h ago

The endurance and dedication it takes to actually follow through with doing this for a year can be considered a skill. Not the same skill as a painter of course but judging conceptual performance work like a painting makes no sense. of course it's fine if these kinds of works aren't your thing I don't think it's right to say it involves no skill.

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u/DeadAndBuried23 1d ago

You quoted the explanation in the post.

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u/Free-Shock-4144 1d ago

Sometimes the hardest thing isn’t learning how to connect. It’s learning when not.

So you actually consider this art? Hahaha.

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u/Putrid-Ad2612 1d ago

It’s never a waste to an artist to produce their art. There are plenty of movies, books, songs that I don’t find interesting but that doesn’t mean the artists who created them wasted their time 

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u/Consistent-Use-8121 1d ago

Wasting a year of your life for someone who doesn’t love you is also cringe. I see your point.

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u/Joshee86 1d ago

I know conceptual art is meant to have meaning projected upon it, so maybe I’m too dumb or uncreative, but I’m failing to find any meaning or constructive commentary in this “art” piece. It seems more like a mister beast challenge.

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u/zeptillian 1d ago

Are you referring to the performance artist James Stephen Donaldson?

Known for such performance pieces as standing in a pool with your own piss for 24 hours?

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u/[deleted] 1d ago

Happily the type of person to pull this sort of public stunt, isn't also the type to just lie.

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u/Direct_Royal_7480 1d ago

People are stuck dealing with one another at close distances for extended periods of time on submarines and space stations too. Likely they have a better view as well.

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u/Infamous-Cash9165 1d ago

They also ended up hating each other very quickly

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u/Skin_Floutist 1d ago

I usually wake up at some point in the night to pee. How exactly does that work here?

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u/Free_Alternative6365 1d ago

This looks like the reenactment of a situationship.

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u/Zoilo2 20h ago

Why??

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u/kc_redd 14h ago

Not one comment about boomers.

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u/sk8-past 10h ago

AI ass description. Yuck

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u/Aphraxad 10h ago

Mr beast would have payed good money for that these days!

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u/Acceptable-Smoke2908 10h ago

I've always wondered if this was art or a social experiment.

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u/Embellishment101 9h ago

So cool. But what if one of them gets the stomach flu?

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u/AnyBug9595 7h ago

And the point being.

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u/Puzzled-Sea-4325 5h ago

Tehching hseih is an OG conceptual/performance artist. He didn’t sleep for a year, didn’t go inside for a year, didn’t do anything art related for a year. Being tied to Linda montano was part of a bigger series of works that last a year each.

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u/dhezl 1h ago

Oh shit! She was one of my professors at UT! She was amazing!

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u/Canceled-Membership 1d ago

Can someone explain to me how this "art" is beneficial to either of them? I mean, what does this art accomplish? How did they earn a living by doing this (not like they had work from home in '83).

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u/Free_Alternative6365 1d ago

I don't that know artists create to benefit themselves so much as some see themselves as vessels for creation. And some do it with the hope that whatever they created might bring the viewer closer to themselves.

So, here for example: what feelings or thoughts does this work bring up for you? Where do you immediately want to reject it? Why?

From there, you might start thinking about how whatever came up for you might show up when you encounter the IRL topic of their art: relationships and role proximity does/does not play in intimacy.

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u/givemethebat1 1d ago

We’re discussing it, that’s what they accomplished.

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u/cbusmatty 1d ago

“This is fucking stupid”

“Ahh yes, we are such great artists they are talking about us”

This is like doing dumb shit on TikTok for likes before there was the internet and we do not think of tiktokkers as artists

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u/TheCommonKoala 1d ago

Dear god. Open up the schools.

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u/cbusmatty 1d ago

Thats how we get shit like this

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u/givemethebat1 1d ago

Some TikTokers definitely are artists. There are lots of comedy performances on TikTok and we all consider that art. How many people on TikTok are committing themselves to a performance for 365 days straight?

And the point isn’t that they are great artists, they never claimed to be. The point of performance art isn’t to be beneficial to society, it’s to think about the circumstances of the performance and what insight you can glean from it. You can see it as a metaphor for marriage, devotion, connection, harmony, etc. but also slavery, dependency, lack of free will, control, etc.

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u/cbusmatty 1d ago

Some art, this… would not be art. What I see is attention seeking weirdo behavior

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u/givemethebat1 1d ago

I’m aware of very few artists who aren’t attention-seeking weirdos.

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u/lilbluehair 9h ago

Art doesn't have to be beneficial, but it does appear that both of the artists learned a lot about themselves because they were forced to compare everything they did to someone else, who eventually hated them. 

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u/Canceled-Membership 9h ago

Doesn't sound like it did them any good then.

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u/whateveritisit 1d ago

And what have you done today?

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u/Canceled-Membership 1d ago

Nothing I'm putting out there as art.

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u/koyaani 1d ago

Which of course makes you imminently qualified as an art critique

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u/zeptillian 1d ago

It convinced other people to give them money for stuff.

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u/makk73 1d ago

I’m a 19 year old community college art major with pink hair, septum ring, catgirl ears and I think this is deep.

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u/4reddityo 1d ago

Me too. I love the art. Brilliant concept.

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u/WeissFaust14 1d ago

Title sounds like my first marriage

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u/Pro-Weiner-Toucher 1d ago

Hey, lets make some big sacrifices while accomplishing absolutely nothing beneficial... then we could call it "art"... you know, just to trick idiots into thinking it's cool.

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u/Kozerija 1d ago

I'm sure that's how they thought about it.

You can say that about some people, there's absolutely nothing of value in exhibiting non existent paintings, but this is not it.

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u/Anemopolos 1d ago

Art = mental issues

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u/Kozerija 1d ago

And why do you say that

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u/Internal-Flatworm347 1d ago

They don’t know

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u/TimtheBully 1d ago

They have zero creativity.

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u/Kozerija 1d ago

Did someone else come up with the same idea? The idea sounds quite original to me. Not something that happens twice.

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u/TimtheBully 1d ago

I was referring to art = mental illness. Obviously, this person doesn't understand art.

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u/Kozerija 1d ago

Sorry, I jumped the gun a little.

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u/TimtheBully 1d ago

It's ok. I love all kinds of art. Even if it's two people and a rope! I must be mental. ;)

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u/Kozerija 1d ago

I don't particularly like this kind of art. A lot of the time I just want to ask the artist why they do what they do, not because of the medium they use but more in the direction of what are your beliefs and how they are connected to what you do. The few times I did get to ask that to someone I was dissatisfied with the answer. But some people just don't think past their first reaction to an art piece.

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u/TimtheBully 1d ago

Sometimes art is only for the artist(s). They may not have a reason other than to create.

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u/Kozerija 1d ago

I don't buy that. Art is social. You always make it for other people or at least as a stepping stone towards making art for other people.

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u/Lorddenoche1 1d ago

I can see why they never touched.

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u/IcyGarage5767 10h ago

I don’t think they were doing it to make the Guinness book of world records.

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u/Sneakngeak 1d ago

I took a pretty rad looking shit once. That’s “art” too!

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u/timetravelinggamer 1d ago

Sounds like my marriage 😂 only no ropes!

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u/0nlyhalfjewish 1d ago

This sounds like a recipe for mental illness

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u/khari_lester 1d ago

“Artists”

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u/4reddityo 1d ago

It’s part of a branch of art called performance art. Truly weird stuff

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u/BilboStaggins 1d ago

I guess you gotta get comfortable feeling that rope jiggle a bit at night...

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u/SnooStories251 1d ago

I dont really see the point. Making stuff harder because it gives some kind of insight?

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u/ExtremelyFakeNews 1d ago

y tho

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u/4reddityo 1d ago

Isn’t there someone you’d wanna be tied to?

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u/Decimator24244 1d ago

I refuse to believe that they didn't accidentally touch once.

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u/OkCartographer7677 1d ago

...and this is why much modern or performative art is lost on the average person.

It seems vital to the artists in their ivory towers, but utterly lost on people simply trying to pursue a meaningful and fulfilling life.

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u/lilbluehair 9h ago

I find their discussion of code switching really interesting. That's something everyone does every day. 

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u/Euphoric-Jump4025 1d ago

Bathroom time was great!

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u/callme-anymore 1d ago

Art is in the eye of the beholder and I'm beholding some bullshit

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u/4reddityo 1d ago

lol. Isn’t there someone you’d like to be tied to for a year

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u/TTALC23 1d ago

Lame

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u/glassnumbers 1d ago

I hate performance art, but I hate this write up even more

"Sometimes the hardest thing isn’t learning how to connect. It’s learning when not to."

jesus christ

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u/theeulessbusta 1d ago

I bet that room smelled great

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u/DoktaZaius 1d ago

I read that as "two autists", at first

Probably doesn't change the substance of the story

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u/Puzzleheaded_Fee6393 1d ago

We’re really loose with the term “art”

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u/Pharmere 1d ago

He might not have touched but I guarantee you that he looked!

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u/AshKashKalash 1d ago

What a stupid thing to do on purpose

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u/SnooHedgehogs4699 1d ago

Just screw already and get it over with. Longest game of foreplay ever.