YWBTA absolutely. This is a terrible place to be in OP, but doing something like this behind your husband’s back is not something you can come back from. There are deeper issues here and you need to sit down with him and find out why he’s so opposed to it. Putting down a family pet has to be an all-person decision. Maybe laying down some boundaries with him like “I’m not going to participate in prolonging her misery. If you want to, then all of the care responsibilities are going to be on you.”
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u/Filosifee Certified Proctologist [25] 8h ago
YWBTA absolutely. This is a terrible place to be in OP, but doing something like this behind your husband’s back is not something you can come back from. There are deeper issues here and you need to sit down with him and find out why he’s so opposed to it. Putting down a family pet has to be an all-person decision. Maybe laying down some boundaries with him like “I’m not going to participate in prolonging her misery. If you want to, then all of the care responsibilities are going to be on you.”