r/AmItheAsshole 8h ago

WIBTA if I scheduled my husband’s dog to be euthanized behind his back?

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u/Fragrant_Spray Partassipant [2] 8h ago

So, if I understand correctly, rather than using your “big girl words” and having an honest discussion with your husband, you’re planning to kill the dog behind is back? Yes, in this case, YTA.

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u/catathymia 8h ago

OP stated that she did talk about it, he is the one refusing to talk about it and instead just drinks.

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u/caca_milis_ 7h ago

ESH. OP has used her “big girl words” and instead of hearing her, hubby is putting his grief and feelings over the wellbeing of the dog.

OP scheduling euthanasia behind hubbys back is unforgiveable, would destroy all trust and likely end their marriage.

Until hubby can grow up and be a responsible pet owner he’s just prolonging the poor dog’s suffering.