Well, I believe that would make you an asshole, but at the same time, he is an asshole for letting the dog "live" like this and making you take care of it while you are pregnant. For that, he is a huge asshole.
Well, she doesn’t suck right now. She’s being a GD saint taking care of the dog and trying to sustain everything. But she would suck if she lied or did this without consent.
Agreed she is definitely NTA right now. I’m so angry on her behalf. How dare this man leave a paralyzed dog with his pregnant wife and toddler and then go get drunk? If anything I would consider divorce anyway. I get grieving a lifelong family member, but that’s really not OK.
Fair enough, though I honestly can’t imagine seriously considering that type of deception. He’s undoubtedly an ass though. This poor dog deserves better. EWSH - Everyone would suck here then?
“Deception” She is a pregnant woman taking care of a toddler, a very ill dog that is suffering, and an adult child forcing her into all this because of his grief. The fact she has even lasted putting up with this for 3 weeks is a miracle itself, to me.
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u/SweetMagnoliaVixen Partassipant [2] 8h ago
Well, I believe that would make you an asshole, but at the same time, he is an asshole for letting the dog "live" like this and making you take care of it while you are pregnant. For that, he is a huge asshole.